"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

mom threatening to sue me

GrandMaster

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2005
Messages
67
Reaction score
0
Location
AFC-town
Hey Guys

I need a quick reality check / feeback from you.

I turned this female friend of mine in a sort of gf. We had lots of fun, but also every month or so she told me that it was over between the two of us. I just ignored and had her back quickly.

Now she cut off contact to me and sent me back per mail a birthday present without a single word from her. I had just given it to her and the same day she had told how much she had really appreciated it, and that it was very kind of me. (first present I ever gave her).

I know that her mom is behind all that, (she still lives with her parents) and now her ex bf called me and first he told me about websites he wanted to do (which could be, cause I do websites), and then he asked me if I had slept with her. I sort of heard they are still together, (anyways she was still dating a couple of guys at the same time, I didn't care about it). I said I couldn't answer that question, cuz I didn't know if I was allowed to tell. (I was so not prepared for that conversation, I have the fear the websites were a trick to get me answering that question. but if it was, he had laid it out veeeery well, with a lot of background to the websites. anyway)

then I wrote her a text saying "hey your ex bf just called me, wtf is going on". she forwards the message back to me. she has blocked my number, can not call her. call her from a friends mobile, doesn't take it. write her from a friends mobile, that her ex just wrote me.

now her mom just called me: "hi this is xxx's mom. this call is gonna last just one minute. blablablabal IF YOU DON'T IMMEDIATLY STOP THE THE THEATER AROUND XXX, I WILL SUE YOU". I said: "yes. thank you very much, good bye".

now guys, just how sick are those ppl??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

BobFuest

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2005
Messages
244
Reaction score
1
Age
47
Location
Chicago
whatever, forget about it and move on. There are ton of stupid people out there. when she blocked you is when you should have just said fuk it.
 

comic_relief

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 29, 2004
Messages
3,282
Reaction score
49
Location
Baltimore, MD
GrandMaster said:
Hey Guys

I need a quick reality check / feeback from you.

I turned this female friend of mine in a sort of gf. We had lots of fun, but also every month or so she told me that it was over between the two of us. I just ignored and had her back quickly.

Now she cut off contact to me and sent me back per mail a birthday present without a single word from her. I had just given it to her and the same day she had told how much she had really appreciated it, and that it was very kind of me. (first present I ever gave her).

I know that her mom is behind all that, (she still lives with her parents) and now her ex bf called me and first he told me about websites he wanted to do (which could be, cause I do websites), and then he asked me if I had slept with her. I sort of heard they are still together, (anyways she was still dating a couple of guys at the same time, I didn't care about it). I said I couldn't answer that question, cuz I didn't know if I was allowed to tell. (I was so not prepared for that conversation, I have the fear the websites were a trick to get me answering that question. but if it was, he had laid it out veeeery well, with a lot of background to the websites. anyway)

then I wrote her a text saying "hey your ex bf just called me, wtf is going on". she forwards the message back to me. she has blocked my number, can not call her. call her from a friends mobile, doesn't take it. write her from a friends mobile, that her ex just wrote me.

now her mom just called me: "hi this is xxx's mom. this call is gonna last just one minute. blablablabal IF YOU DON'T IMMEDIATLY STOP THE THE THEATER AROUND XXX, I WILL SUE YOU". I said: "yes. thank you very much, good bye".

now guys, just how sick are those ppl??
forget her and move on.

Crazy people scare the sh!t out of me.

comic_relief
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Bad Karma

New Member
Joined
Jul 10, 2006
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
What grounds would she have to sue you on? Unless you forgot to tell us something, just tell her mom to go fvck herself.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2005
Messages
1,460
Reaction score
22
kill the stupid wh*re trash b*tch... and hang her body and use it as a punching bag and beat her even more.

then take a stick to her head as if she were a pinata... then kick her... and... cut her fingers off... and then... umm... kill her some more... that stupid wh*re b*tch.
 

shydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2005
Messages
569
Reaction score
2
Location
New York City
Just next her, i mean there are plenty of women out there. Dont need crazy ppl..
 

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
shydude said:
Just next her, i mean there are plenty of women out there. Dont need crazy ppl..

No, I like the punching bag idea, but see if you can somehow preserve her so you don't get the rotting body smell.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Freddy1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 29, 2005
Messages
563
Reaction score
1
GrandMaster said:
Hey Guys

I need a quick reality check / feeback from you.

I turned this female friend of mine in a sort of gf. We had lots of fun, but also every month or so she told me that it was over between the two of us. I just ignored and had her back quickly.

Now she cut off contact to me and sent me back per mail a birthday present without a single word from her. I had just given it to her and the same day she had told how much she had really appreciated it, and that it was very kind of me. (first present I ever gave her).

I know that her mom is behind all that, (she still lives with her parents) and now her ex bf called me and first he told me about websites he wanted to do (which could be, cause I do websites), and then he asked me if I had slept with her. I sort of heard they are still together, (anyways she was still dating a couple of guys at the same time, I didn't care about it). I said I couldn't answer that question, cuz I didn't know if I was allowed to tell. (I was so not prepared for that conversation, I have the fear the websites were a trick to get me answering that question. but if it was, he had laid it out veeeery well, with a lot of background to the websites. anyway)

then I wrote her a text saying "hey your ex bf just called me, wtf is going on". she forwards the message back to me. she has blocked my number, can not call her. call her from a friends mobile, doesn't take it. write her from a friends mobile, that her ex just wrote me.

now her mom just called me: "hi this is xxx's mom. this call is gonna last just one minute. blablablabal IF YOU DON'T IMMEDIATLY STOP THE THE THEATER AROUND XXX, I WILL SUE YOU". I said: "yes. thank you very much, good bye".

now guys, just how sick are those ppl??

She cant sue you. Its ridiculous. Unless you say something slanderous that isnt true or cause some sort of physical or mental injury.

Now if your perceived as stalking her then I would stopped immediatly and move on. Its not worth it.
 

Zerotwoonenine

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2006
Messages
450
Reaction score
5
Location
London
wtf man? i know just ignore them. HOWS ABOUT DJING HER BST FRIEND AND SLEEP WITH HER, get wat i am saying??
 

GrandMaster

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2005
Messages
67
Reaction score
0
Location
AFC-town
hey guys thanks alot. Those ppl are in fact insane. I forgot her more or less, already had a nice k-close this saturday in a club.

in a certain way it just sucks that I have no fuuucking clue what happened. girl didn't even call me to excuse her mom or so, just didn't hear a SINGLE thing.

probably just some test in my life I have to go through.

LET'S DO SOME HIGH ENERGY SARGING GUYS!!!!
 
Joined
Jun 29, 2006
Messages
516
Reaction score
6
Age
37
Location
Plano, Illinois
forget her and move on.

Crazy people scare the sh!t out of me.

comic_relief

Agreed, crazy people.... well dude yahh they basically just scare the ****t outta me too bro. How unnessary is that?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Joined
Nov 8, 2005
Messages
867
Reaction score
2
Location
***** palace
Steg said:
Weird, if you'r bored ask what grounds.
LOL that's good I think a better idea would be to call the mom and tell her that you have AIDS or STDs and you forgot to use the condom so she should get her daughter checked! that'll p*ss her off make sure she doesn't know where you live though.
 

Heart Break Kid

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 17, 2006
Messages
714
Reaction score
5
Location
In hell. I'm Satan's lover.
Silly mother, she couldn't get anything more than a peace bond if that. I suggest you next her though mate, she doesnt seem worth it and it sounds like she'll be back...
 

Docs

Banned
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
3,571
Reaction score
56
Location
Kingston, Can-a-duh
LOL that's good I think a better idea would be to call the mom and tell her that you have AIDS or STDs and you forgot to use the condom so she should get her daughter checked! that'll p*ss her off make sure she doesn't know where you live though.
lol.....
 

NYC Dude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2002
Messages
624
Reaction score
1
Location
New York City, USA
Am I the only one who thinks that it's the GIRL that's the problem, not the MOM? Come on, no mother would be able to do all the things you're accusing her of. Maybe the birthday present or the blocked calls, but to me it sounds like you've just been too creepy for her, she's done with you and she has to go to these measures to convince you that it's over.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Top