"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mom leavin town for a week, party?

Zaraza

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Alright guys, whats up,

my mom is heading out of town for a week, and i got a pretty small house, but thinkin bout doin like a 10-15 people get together nothign too big, what are some ideas?

the house is pretty small but ill have the whole upstairs (2bedrooms, and a hallway) and downstairs if needed.


so i can get alcohol,

hookah,

music going,

what could i do to get everybody going and somethin to do?

basically what are some ideas?>
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zaraza

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nothing else? what do you guys do or ahve seen others do?
 

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what bout places to sit and ****, probnlem is we moved so just got mattress and stuff in my room.
 

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the most important things in being successful in this is based on being slick as a smart motherfuker.

Don't get cought with the alchol, be cautious of your neijhbors so they dont realise somethings up and call the cops.

Have a bouncer at the door

Store anything valuable away in a locked seprate room!!!!!!

More alchol is a lot better than less

Invite more pvssy than c0cks

15 is good, but if u want to get yourself on the map do it in the 20's-30's haha

I've been to ghetto ass parties and the last thing anyone is worrying about is where to sit

Make it off the hook but be very cautious, hopefully your isolated from any neijhbors

lol and have fun

BBX
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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couple questions,

whats the reason for a bouncer?,

alcohol is no problem and my neighbors are cool, they are 21 haha.

Getting caught is what im worried about, if i got a strobe light or something do you think cops will knock on the door cuz the see it flashing in the window?

this is really the first one im doing, so i am not afraid to admit i dont know anything.
 

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if your neijhbors are cool, then u dont even need a bouncer. A bouncer could be used at the door for allowing/denying people in, and being on the watchout for neijhbors, cops, parents? The bouncer takes notice of this and tells everyone to hide in the basement and crap and hide the alchol, a bouncer isnt necessary, but its a nice thing to have

lol, to be honest u dont need a strobe light, all u need for a party is alchol, a lot of it, trust me, that gets everything started like u wouldnt believe.

get a good group of your friends there and basically as many kids as possible, a lot of girls too, just flow with it
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zaraza said:
Alright guys, whats up,

my mom is heading out of town for a week, and i got a pretty small house, but thinkin bout doin like a 10-15 people get together nothign too big, what are some ideas?

the house is pretty small but ill have the whole upstairs (2bedrooms, and a hallway) and downstairs if needed.


so i can get alcohol,

hookah,

music going,

what could i do to get everybody going and somethin to do?

basically what are some ideas?>
Here is an idea. Why don't you line up a few dates and invite them back to your place and have some real 'fun'. I know you are probably tired of trying to find somewhere 'private' to go with your girl(s), right? Take advantage bro.

If you have a party, you'll probably end up with very little to show for it except a hangover and broken furniture.
 
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well... why don't you NOT party at your place.. and then just go out every night to party...

i just would hate the thought of people messing up my house... then HAVING to clean it or you WILL get caught by your parents.
 

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Fallen33 said:
If you live in the U.S. then don't worry. It is protected under our constitution that an officer can not enter your house unless there is a warrant to do so.

Just keep the noise down and you should be gravy.
Not exactly. If they see alcohol and underage kids they dont need ****. Probable cause i believe is enough...like drugs on plain sight.
 

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Hey man,

I recently had a party at my house that we just moved into.

My parents were in miami for the week.

It was killer, kegs, live music, purposely invited girls I knew..but not very well, really hot ones, like cheerleaders etc..

It ended up getting busted, 12 units of cops raided it, I got fines and all sorts of ****..

BUT.. lol everyone knows me now and for the past two weeks all the girls have been asking me about if im in trouble, and when are we doing it again etc etc..deff worth it.

just be safe, be careful and all that.

(not sure if you've already had it or not lol)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why do you want to throw a party? Is it to get girls? Is it to be some popularity? If your doing for the girls, then just invite some of them over your pad and make your move. Now if your doing for popularity sake, then don't waste your time buddy. Just go to other peoples partys. That way you don't have to worry about people breaking stuff and the cops getting called to you house.

good luck.
 
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