"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mom leavin town for a week, party?

Zaraza

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Alright guys, whats up,

my mom is heading out of town for a week, and i got a pretty small house, but thinkin bout doin like a 10-15 people get together nothign too big, what are some ideas?

the house is pretty small but ill have the whole upstairs (2bedrooms, and a hallway) and downstairs if needed.


so i can get alcohol,

hookah,

music going,

what could i do to get everybody going and somethin to do?

basically what are some ideas?>
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zaraza

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nothing else? what do you guys do or ahve seen others do?
 

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what bout places to sit and ****, probnlem is we moved so just got mattress and stuff in my room.
 

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the most important things in being successful in this is based on being slick as a smart motherfuker.

Don't get cought with the alchol, be cautious of your neijhbors so they dont realise somethings up and call the cops.

Have a bouncer at the door

Store anything valuable away in a locked seprate room!!!!!!

More alchol is a lot better than less

Invite more pvssy than c0cks

15 is good, but if u want to get yourself on the map do it in the 20's-30's haha

I've been to ghetto ass parties and the last thing anyone is worrying about is where to sit

Make it off the hook but be very cautious, hopefully your isolated from any neijhbors

lol and have fun

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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couple questions,

whats the reason for a bouncer?,

alcohol is no problem and my neighbors are cool, they are 21 haha.

Getting caught is what im worried about, if i got a strobe light or something do you think cops will knock on the door cuz the see it flashing in the window?

this is really the first one im doing, so i am not afraid to admit i dont know anything.
 

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if your neijhbors are cool, then u dont even need a bouncer. A bouncer could be used at the door for allowing/denying people in, and being on the watchout for neijhbors, cops, parents? The bouncer takes notice of this and tells everyone to hide in the basement and crap and hide the alchol, a bouncer isnt necessary, but its a nice thing to have

lol, to be honest u dont need a strobe light, all u need for a party is alchol, a lot of it, trust me, that gets everything started like u wouldnt believe.

get a good group of your friends there and basically as many kids as possible, a lot of girls too, just flow with it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zaraza said:
Alright guys, whats up,

my mom is heading out of town for a week, and i got a pretty small house, but thinkin bout doin like a 10-15 people get together nothign too big, what are some ideas?

the house is pretty small but ill have the whole upstairs (2bedrooms, and a hallway) and downstairs if needed.


so i can get alcohol,

hookah,

music going,

what could i do to get everybody going and somethin to do?

basically what are some ideas?>
Here is an idea. Why don't you line up a few dates and invite them back to your place and have some real 'fun'. I know you are probably tired of trying to find somewhere 'private' to go with your girl(s), right? Take advantage bro.

If you have a party, you'll probably end up with very little to show for it except a hangover and broken furniture.
 
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well... why don't you NOT party at your place.. and then just go out every night to party...

i just would hate the thought of people messing up my house... then HAVING to clean it or you WILL get caught by your parents.
 

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Fallen33 said:
If you live in the U.S. then don't worry. It is protected under our constitution that an officer can not enter your house unless there is a warrant to do so.

Just keep the noise down and you should be gravy.
Not exactly. If they see alcohol and underage kids they dont need ****. Probable cause i believe is enough...like drugs on plain sight.
 

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Hey man,

I recently had a party at my house that we just moved into.

My parents were in miami for the week.

It was killer, kegs, live music, purposely invited girls I knew..but not very well, really hot ones, like cheerleaders etc..

It ended up getting busted, 12 units of cops raided it, I got fines and all sorts of ****..

BUT.. lol everyone knows me now and for the past two weeks all the girls have been asking me about if im in trouble, and when are we doing it again etc etc..deff worth it.

just be safe, be careful and all that.

(not sure if you've already had it or not lol)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why do you want to throw a party? Is it to get girls? Is it to be some popularity? If your doing for the girls, then just invite some of them over your pad and make your move. Now if your doing for popularity sake, then don't waste your time buddy. Just go to other peoples partys. That way you don't have to worry about people breaking stuff and the cops getting called to you house.

good luck.
 
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