"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Moles

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This pisses me off, if im in the sun for however long... i get moles. it sucks cuz i live 10 mins frfom the beach and LOVE the beach, the whole atmosphere, the warmth, the surfing, the girls in biquinis ;p(sp). But i always seem to get moles, last summer i removed like 5 from my back which i still have ****ing marks frm and its been like 6 months (theyre red). Even if im wearing a rashguard(altho i would like to show off my body) i can get em on my face.. cuz of course theres nothing covering that, which really sucks, cuz i have a pretty face :D.
SO if anyone knows about this, please help me out, thx.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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OddTech

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Wear sunscreen. But seriously, if you're getting moles, and they are ill-formed, you should consider seeing a dermatologist. It might be something worst.

btw: the correct spelling is "bikini."
 

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NEVER remove a mole by yourself. Always have it professionally removed by a dermatologist. First of all you are likely to just create scars.

use sunscreen,

i don't want to scare you but get yourself to a dermatologist ASAP for full body skin check and they will remove any and all suspicious moles.

Melanoma KILLS... it is not uncommon at all esp. among guys in their 20's.
 

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I was wondering how much does it cost to remove a mole and does it hurt real badly? I'm in Australia so currency will be different from where you live...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Escude

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in the US if you have insurance they pretty much cover suspicious mole removal, i.e. ones that look like they may be precancerous or cancerous.

Also remember in addition to melanoma there are other types of skin cancers which while may not kill you can grow and disfigure your face, etc.

As for what to look for well, check this site for an idea, but always have a professional look at it... they've seen so many they are that much better at it than you.

the website is in memorium to a very young guy who died of metastatic melanoma at age 27. It can happen to anyone.. early detection is key.

http://www.skincheck.com/index.htm#Site%20Content
 

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doesnt hurt at all its all under local anesthesia and you'll be out of the office in minutes
 
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