Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This pisses me off, if im in the sun for however long... i get moles. it sucks cuz i live 10 mins frfom the beach and LOVE the beach, the whole atmosphere, the warmth, the surfing, the girls in biquinis ;p(sp). But i always seem to get moles, last summer i removed like 5 from my back which i still have ****ing marks frm and its been like 6 months (theyre red). Even if im wearing a rashguard(altho i would like to show off my body) i can get em on my face.. cuz of course theres nothing covering that, which really sucks, cuz i have a pretty face :D.
SO if anyone knows about this, please help me out, thx.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wear sunscreen. But seriously, if you're getting moles, and they are ill-formed, you should consider seeing a dermatologist. It might be something worst.

btw: the correct spelling is "bikini."
 
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NEVER remove a mole by yourself. Always have it professionally removed by a dermatologist. First of all you are likely to just create scars.

use sunscreen,

i don't want to scare you but get yourself to a dermatologist ASAP for full body skin check and they will remove any and all suspicious moles.

Melanoma KILLS... it is not uncommon at all esp. among guys in their 20's.
 
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I was wondering how much does it cost to remove a mole and does it hurt real badly? I'm in Australia so currency will be different from where you live...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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in the US if you have insurance they pretty much cover suspicious mole removal, i.e. ones that look like they may be precancerous or cancerous.

Also remember in addition to melanoma there are other types of skin cancers which while may not kill you can grow and disfigure your face, etc.

As for what to look for well, check this site for an idea, but always have a professional look at it... they've seen so many they are that much better at it than you.

the website is in memorium to a very young guy who died of metastatic melanoma at age 27. It can happen to anyone.. early detection is key.

http://www.skincheck.com/index.htm#Site%20Content
 
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doesnt hurt at all its all under local anesthesia and you'll be out of the office in minutes
 
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