"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mods, Clean This Place Up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Harp

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Look at this place!

LOOK!

I think I've said enough. I wanted to give a friend of mine this website but I didn't. You know why?

I'll tell you why. Because it would have done him more harm then good. This place is filled with.....okay, I don't even need to say it because I'm sure you have eyes.

IT WOULD HAVE DONE HIM MORE HARM THAN GOOD!!!!!!!!!!

CLEAN THIS PLACE UP ALONG WITH THE REST OF THE SITE!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr_rogers

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Harp said:
Look at this place!

LOOK!

I think I've said enough. I wanted to give a friend of mine this website but I didn't. You know why?

I'll tell you why. Because it would have done him more harm then good. This place is filled with.....okay, I don't even need to say it because I'm sure you have eyes.

IT WOULD HAVE DONE HIM MORE HARM THAN GOOD!!!!!!!!!!

CLEAN THIS PLACE UP ALONG WITH THE REST OF THE SITE!
Thought I do agree that this place isn't anywhere near as helpful as it should be, posting a demand for the mods to do something probably isn't a great way to get it done. I'm sure that the mods are well aware of how far this place has fallen, and I'm sure they're trying to figure out what to do about it.

I think patience is the key for now.
 

B-Lemond

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This place is going :down:

One of our top members (Jariel) has decided to leave due to the very FACT that this place is becoming infested with garbage!
 

Blackdragon5095

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I plan on leaving soon too. Our greatest Dj's have left. This fourm isn't about self-improvement now it's about proving something or bragging.

I'm trying to get some djs to go to the wsa site or get screen names. ( for aim , yahoo or msn )

I think guys will be better off in the field then on here. Make sure you take the dj bible before you leave. :cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LikRetsam

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Heh. Never been a forum mod eh?
 

TheVirtualMind

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LikRetsam said:
Heh. Never been a forum mod eh?
Amen. If only they knew...

I'm guessing people are failing to notice that Vincent is on vacation and I'm pulling extra hours at work right now, so the "HS overhaul" is on hold for a little bit. But don't worry. By the start of August, this place will have glory!

Or, you know, a bunch of pissed off people who are getting threads closed due to them being redundant, whichever.
 

B-Lemond

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Blackdragon5095 said:
I plan on leaving soon too.

Right on bro. I know what you mean.

I just found another place for me. Somewhere that'll be more beneficial to me. I don't know when, but I can see it coming.

I made it a goal, previously, that I would leave before getting 1,000 posts. I didn't think it would happen, but now I am slowly seeing it become reality.

My days here will vanish...
 

Blackdragon5095

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I don't really want 1,000 posts ethier, or be a mod. I want to be a real man and apply what I have learned. This website is just for getting women and thats about it.

I agree with you B-Lemond, finding another website like this would be better.
 

Point Blank

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Ya! Cuz I'm new and I don't need to be seeing this garbage! It's a bad influence!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheVirtualMind

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Point Blank said:
Ya! Cuz I'm new and I don't need to be seeing this garbage! It's a bad influence!
Um, ok Arisnel. You are almost as bad as dreamx...
 

MikeViper

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Something I've noticed is that half the people don't even read the rules. I see plenty of people posting about stuff that you can easily find if you search, or read the DJ Bible.
 

dannowillbookem

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what are alternative forums? i hate to be disloyal but i wanna widen my horizons and see if this place really is going bad

any alt forum suggestions?
 

Skilla_Staz

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What we REALLY need, is to have some way to force people to read some rules and accept them before posting on the forum. After so many violations, have their account deleted. I'm sure it would take a lot more effort to put into action, but it's a good idea in my opinion.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MikeViper

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Yes, perhaps we need to have a quiz, or something on the rules, that you HAVE to take before you join, that way we can insure people have actually read the rules.
 

Muphaser

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Taken some time off with work, exams, girls etc... but im back... Place looks exactly the same as when i left (just after dreamx got booted...)

So whats new?
 

Mr_rogers

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Muphaser said:
Taken some time off with work, exams, girls etc... but im back... Place looks exactly the same as when i left (just after dreamx got booted...)

So whats new?
4/5ths of f**k all, my friend.
 

theapprentice

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what?

I think all of you who are complaining like to feel like you dont belong in the category who post "garbage." People who are new, who have JUST read the bible or dont understand it or who have certain insecurities or problems that you might not have had are now garbage? Is that what your saying?

This board is not organized very well thats it. First off all there should be a new section created just for the "mental game" area. Everything we do starts in our head. ALOT of people here have issues with anxiety and nervousness and we are all trying to learn how to do that. Its not that you "playa's" are so good with techniques that you get girls. Its just that you keep trying until a girl likes you. Each girl is so diffrent that its just a matter of time you find a girl who likes enough things about you, and if you make an effort to change yourself that she will like you back. C&F is also mental, thats why there are no Field Reports because you have to teach people how to overcome fear first. C&F cant be taught, so you cant sit and make posts about good C&f lines, thats retarted. It has to come from the person, when he is relaxed and confident. Dont talk about all the alpha male Bullsh*t that you throw around each other like a trophy phrase it DOESNT MEAN ANYTHING ANYMORE because its been abused by so many people, it has no concrete meaning anymore in the seduction society. I bet most of the people here are not alpha males at all, leave this board if you are, and if you stay to help other people than thank you.

Never consider other peoples questions as garbage, what if your question was treated in such a manor.

The reason this board has come to shambles is that there is no regulation on who can ANSWER questions and who can ASK questions. Newbies and people not certified should not be allowed to answer other newbie's posts. Im sure the webmaster can create a list of about 30 or more experienced players who are qualified to answer people's questions. These 30 or how ever many that can be considered qualified by reading their Field reports, and answers to various questions.

You will see a tremendous load of people leave this site, and since there is no advertising done here, that wont be a bad thing. The qualified individuals can answer questiosn which are important.

To make it a little broader, you could let newbies post but the qualified guys could read the newbies post and leave it there if it is good advice or delete it and give a reasoning if its bad advice.

How do you expect a organized self sustaining website to grow when everyone can go around answering each other's questions, and nobody knows what the truth is and isnt.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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