"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Moderators! It's time for a bit of enforcing!

Aerospace

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I've got an idea. From now on you should immediately forbid posts that are:

* Whiny
* Useless
* Narcissistic

I mean: we all come here to seek two things:

* MOTIVATION
* EXPERIENCE

We just want experiences and techniques we could possibly use. I'm sick and tired of whiny wussy cry-baby pussies who do not read The Bible. And what about the incessant trolling?

Please, change your policies and make them a bit more strict. I'm sure everyone here will appreciate that.

So: DO NOT POST unless your post may help someone, or instruct someone in any way. Please keep your bad mood to yourself, and it will be even easier for you to gather a better mood by standing here with your virtual so-sosuave friends.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cjyogz

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I agree you with there man, i only just joined this board, but i know from previous boards that this sorta thing can be really annoying, and the fact the people come here to get experience is a pretty essential point to take into consideration.

I myself, am working through DJ bible at the moment, i mean...do u guys know how many pages there ****en are, i'll be dead by the time i read it all, haha. But just so i don't get bulleted, i posted this topic http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103186 because i'm still reading the bible and would like some on the spot help.

But i totally agree where u are coming from Aerospace.
 

Aerospace

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Ditto, Jody!

Shezz may the living proof that optimism and endurance definately pay on the long run. He designed his special dj'ing pattern and lands chicks like there's no tomorrow! Read some of his recent posts! :yes:

Just be confident and practice a lot, most importantly try and have fun, and the rest will adjust by itself!
 

The Truth

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yeah this site is going to hell and needs some strict moderating!

Shezz is right too. You should always be taking action and should only use this site to guide you and get feedback on your progress.
 

cjyogz

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Thats what i have done, i've gone through the bible, and saved all the articles that i think i will benefit from, onto my computer. (only cause i'm not online constantly). It'll take me ages to read it all because i'm not going to sit here all day and read it, i'll do segments, then go try it, that way it'll stick to the system.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Aerospace said:
I've got an idea. From now on you should immediately forbid posts that are:

* Whiny
* Useless
* Narcissistic

I mean: we all come here to seek two things:

* MOTIVATION
* EXPERIENCE

We just want experiences and techniques we could possibly use. I'm sick and tired of whiny wussy cry-baby pussies who do not read The Bible. And what about the incessant trolling?

Please, change your policies and make them a bit more strict. I'm sure everyone here will appreciate that.

So: DO NOT POST unless your post may help someone, or instruct someone in any way. Please keep your bad mood to yourself, and it will be even easier for you to gather a better mood by standing here with your virtual so-sosuave friends.

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WHO THE F*CK ARE YOU TO MAKE RULES,ITS UP TO THE MODERATORS DON'T TELL WHAT YOU THINKS,YOUR JUST A MEMEBER LIKE ME OR ANYONE ELSE YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO EVEN BE MAKING A THREAD LIKE THIS,IF THE MODS THINKS ITS A PROBLEM THEN LET THEM HANDLE IT,BUT IF THEY DON'T THEN THERE IS NOTHING HAPPENING.LET ME QUOTE YOU"So: DO NOT POST unless your post may help someone, or instruct someone in any way. Please keep your bad mood to yourself, and it will be even easier for you to gather a better mood by standing here with your virtual so-sosuave friends."
HAHA THATS A JOKE,YOU SOUND LIKE YOU OWN THIS SITE,IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE THREADS THEN DON'T READ THEM SIMPLE AS THAT.AND THIS IS A FORUM ANYONE CAN EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS YOUR FULL OF SH*T WHY WON'T YOU JUST GO TO ANOTHER FORUM OR BETTER YET MAKE YOUR OWN FORUM DON'T SPEAK FOR THE MODERATORS.Sorry I caps locked my typing I am kinda angry at this guy,plus your thread is a waste of space..NEXT!
 

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dreamxhenry said:
WHO THE F*CK ARE YOU TO MAKE RULES,ITS UP TO THE MODERATORS DON'T TELL WHAT YOU THINKS,YOUR JUST A MEMEBER LIKE ME OR ANYONE ELSE YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO EVEN BE MAKING A THREAD LIKE THIS,IF THE MODS THINKS ITS A PROBLEM THEN LET THEM HANDLE IT,BUT IF THEY DON'T THEN THERE IS NOTHING HAPPENING.LET ME QUOTE YOU"So: DO NOT POST unless your post may help someone, or instruct someone in any way. Please keep your bad mood to yourself, and it will be even easier for you to gather a better mood by standing here with your virtual so-sosuave friends."
HAHA THATS A JOKE,YOU SOUND LIKE YOU OWN THIS SITE,IF YOU DON'T LIKE THE THREADS THEN DON'T READ THEM SIMPLE AS THAT.AND THIS IS A FORUM ANYONE CAN EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS YOUR FULL OF SH*T WHY WON'T YOU JUST GO TO ANOTHER FORUM OR BETTER YET MAKE YOUR OWN FORUM DON'T SPEAK FOR THE MODERATORS.Sorry I caps locked my typing I am kinda angry at this guy,plus your thread is a waste of space..NEXT!
At the end of the day i agree with dreamxhenry its free speech and if u dont like it dont read, simple.
 

Aerospace

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Sorry, I assumed I was with intelligent people who knew what to desire from a decent message board. Sadly, this is not the case. Do you want the trolling and the whining? What's the point?

dreamxhenry, calm down and try and grow a little. You're not even worth an answer if you speak like an imbecile. Turn Caps Lock off. Do you realize your double standard, my imbecile friend? If you do not like my post, why don't you use your 'forum ethics' and ignore it? It seems you like to abuse of democracy till it becomes rubbish, polluting this forum with your nonsense. I repeat it once more: what's the point in allowing whining, self-commiserating or bragging and trivial threads? Freedom should not be confused with mayhem. You're American, I should not even need to teach you such a lesson.

EDIT: I had a chance to read your thread "we are all losers". Best compliments on your motivating skills, dreamxhenry! I feel a little repent having answered your insipid and desperate answer. By the way I hope you'll take a little time to explain me what is the point in your idiotic commiseration. Why aren't you getting your ass in gear? Would you be happier to be a better person, and not someone who tries to put everyone else down to his level? I'm sure you'd be. Work on it, mate. You deserve it more that the humiliation you're inflicting on yourself.

I'm waiting other replies. And where are the mods? :confused:
 

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I agree with Aerospace.

The only purpose the pathetic posts serve is to reassure me that there's much bigger losers out there than myself, not a very positive thought.
 

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When people tell their sob stories it seems kind of like whining... right?

But if people don't tell their stories, how can more experienced people give advice????

I think I gain alot from reading someone's story about how crappy their girl situation is and then getting to read a well thought out reply that gives me ideas and encouragment.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I actually find these forums relatively void of trolls.
I mean, I've seen *******s post wisecracks at people once in awhile, and there is are occasional trollish posts now and then.

But compared to many places, this forum is heaven. I can just name one place off of the top of my head. The forum for the game Second Life. I've played that game, and visited their forum. Trolls everywhere. People all over the place complaining about the trolls. And garbage moderators making excuses such as all forums are like this.
 

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D@mn this is a whiny thread... :p
 

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Learning how to filter through crap teaches you focus. If you get all bent out of shape over stupid crap how will you handle real situations?

Ignore stupid crap and focus on whats best for you.
 

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AS THEY SAY AT AA MEETINGS - "TAKE WHAT YOU WANT AND LEAVE THE REST" - HAPPY SARGING :yes:
 

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They should make guys label their post like they do on another forum..

Example: LOW CONTENT= LC- Im scared of girls, but love my hand.


Approach: I sarged at the mall today.

Strategy: How do I respond when she says....

Self-Help: This is how you overcome lameness...


Everyone should label their post, and unlabeled posts should be deleted.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I love this 'labeling' idea... let's propose it to some of the moderators. We already use it with Field Reports (FR). Why not create other cathegories like

Useless Whining (UW)

Stupid Crap I Read On Google (SCIROG)

My Balls Are The Greatest (MBATG)

...apart from joking, I like the idea. Let's organize this thing a little better and let's see what happens.
 
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