"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Did I say 16? That was typo. I clearly meant 21.
you mean 22 dont you?
cause you should never say 21, we know you are bluffing...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I feel very deprieved now. I want nuts! (wow someone is totally gonna quote me on that one).
I got two, so you can have one...

Only because Fist pointed out the packages AREN'T condoms..

Fist - Let the mile high sexing continue.
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
I got two, so you can have one...

Only because Fist pointed out the packages AREN'T condoms..

Fist - Let the mile high sexing continue.

*** hides in the airplane linen closet with the camera***
*** labels tape "mile highing"***
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
*** hides in the airplane linen closet with the camera***
*** labels tape "mile highing"***
What do you think pen? A plane on the way to Florida in May?
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
*** hides in the airplane linen closet with the camera***
*** labels tape "mile highing"***
Ohh...Suacey.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
What do you think pen? A plane on the way to Florida in May?
yesh! and i have never been in an airplane bathroom, or an airplane either :)
 

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LOL. Geez. What kind of snazzy planes do you guys fly in that the bathrooms are not only big enough for sex, but there are linen closets in there too!?
 

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yesh! and i have never been in an airplane bathroom, or an airplane either :)
An airplane virgin! Quick Gio, help her! :D
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
LOL. Geez. What kind of snazzy planes do you guys fly in that the bathrooms are not only big enough for sex, but there are linen closets in there too!?
Snazzy? Hell, Fist and I are that skinny that we can fit.
 

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USAirways has really nice planes...with sex-sized bathrooms and linen closets
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Fist_of_Fury
with sex-sized bathrooms and linen closets
How the hell would you know!? We are on Southwest!
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
An airplane virgin! Quick Gio, help her! :D
I'm an airplane virgin too, but I'll see what I can do.
 

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Nope. I've only flown Southwest once...USAirways is cheaper...at least it has been.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I'm an airplane virgin too, but I'll see what I can do.
*Sigh* It's gonna be awkward and uncomfortable because you two are virgins..Erm, airplane virgins...

*Then again, so am I and Fist.*
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I'm an airplane virgin too, but I'll see what I can do.
yay! we can be virgins together sweetheart.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Fist_of_Fury
Nope. I've only flown Southwest once...USAirways is cheaper...at least it has been.
Still, how do you know the bathrooms are big enough for sex? *Starting to think Chris was right.* :cool:
 

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Aww. You virgins are so cute.
 

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Still, how do you know the bathrooms are big enough for sex? *Starting to think Chris was right.*
I'm kiddin...you know that. Walkup is SO not my type...even if he is ripped and only answers to the name "Daddy"...
 

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Originally posted by Fist_of_Fury
I'm kiddin...you know that. Walkup is SO not my type...even if he is ripped and only answers to the name "Daddy"...
What about Bahn? ;)

Geez, I'm gonna have to fly USAirways more often apparently...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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