"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hot Ice

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Hey, where are you guys???
I've seen quite a lot of posts going around wildly without being posted in teh right forums..
Like wtf "Do tattoos add an element of sex appeal?" or "Stretch marks on boobs?" type of topics do in Don Juan Discussion???

I thought tattoos are anything else.
Also if you ask have anyone seen strech marks on boobs..

I could give more examples, but I think you get the point.

Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hardwork

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Well I'M here...!

And have you seen the deluge of posts posted daily in Discussion? It takes a while to sift through that stuff. Even with six moderators it's surely time-consuming.
 

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Re: Well I'M here...!

Originally posted by Von Neuen
And have you seen the deluge of posts posted daily in Discussion? It takes a while to sift through that stuff. Even with six moderators it's surely time-consuming.
Yeah, I know.
Just felt like to brag a little bit when the post is viewed over 800 times and it's in a wrong forum...

BTW. Come to #donjuan once in a while for chat.
 

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Von Neuen is here and Crazykid must not be.

The rest of us are, in fact, dead.
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by prosemont
Von Neuen is here and Crazykid must not be.

The rest of us are, in fact, dead.
*Raises hand out of coffin* I'm still here. *Gasp for air*
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hot Ice

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Originally posted by crazykid
*Raises hand out of coffin* I'm still here. *Gasp for air*

LOL
Take a broom in your hands and go cleaning, fukkas! :D
 

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Come on Von, that tattoos thread was posted in here at one point. And at least six times everywhere else.
 

Cesare Cardinali

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I think the mods do a great job. You should see what kind of spam and junk would be on this place if they weren't here...However, if you don't like how things are run, then why not offer up your services for a moderator job? You can't really put it on your resumé but it would still be a worthwhile experience.
 
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