"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey, where are you guys???
I've seen quite a lot of posts going around wildly without being posted in teh right forums..
Like wtf "Do tattoos add an element of sex appeal?" or "Stretch marks on boobs?" type of topics do in Don Juan Discussion???

I thought tattoos are anything else.
Also if you ask have anyone seen strech marks on boobs..

I could give more examples, but I think you get the point.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well I'M here...!

And have you seen the deluge of posts posted daily in Discussion? It takes a while to sift through that stuff. Even with six moderators it's surely time-consuming.
 
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Re: Well I'M here...!

Originally posted by Von Neuen
And have you seen the deluge of posts posted daily in Discussion? It takes a while to sift through that stuff. Even with six moderators it's surely time-consuming.
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Yeah, I know.
Just felt like to brag a little bit when the post is viewed over 800 times and it's in a wrong forum...

BTW. Come to #donjuan once in a while for chat.
 
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Von Neuen is here and Crazykid must not be.

The rest of us are, in fact, dead.
 
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Originally posted by prosemont
Von Neuen is here and Crazykid must not be.

The rest of us are, in fact, dead.
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*Raises hand out of coffin* I'm still here. *Gasp for air*
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by crazykid
*Raises hand out of coffin* I'm still here. *Gasp for air*
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LOL
Take a broom in your hands and go cleaning, fukkas! :D
 
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Come on Von, that tattoos thread was posted in here at one point. And at least six times everywhere else.
 
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I think the mods do a great job. You should see what kind of spam and junk would be on this place if they weren't here...However, if you don't like how things are run, then why not offer up your services for a moderator job? You can't really put it on your resumé but it would still be a worthwhile experience.
 
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