The Messiah
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i want to become a moderator, how do i go about this??
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Are you f*cking serious? If you get to become a moderator, i will refuse to be active on this site anymore!The Messiah said:i want to become a moderator, how do i go about this??
your just jealous i haven't rewarded you with any of my feedback. i give praise where its due. If your not an retard i will makes sure to tell you! if you are i will insult you!Lust said:Are you f*cking serious? If you get to become a moderator, i will refuse to be active on this site anymore!
The sh*t you post is ridiculous, half the board wants you banned, let alone a moderator.
Creating threads about specific individuals is against forum policy. Especially attempting to create a motion to ban that individual based on a personal vendetta. It is disruptive and counter-productive to the forum community. You are in no position to be a moderator.The Messiah said:i want to become a moderator, how do i go about this??
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I don't think you can be a moderator after you were already banned.The Messiah said:but i could make a difference. i could turn this forum around! how do i go about it?anyone know?
qftqweretyuiopas said:No one who asks to be a mod becomes one
Yep, it was an inevitable truth. Why would some one who admittedly is only here to have fun and not help ever get to become a mod?DJDamage said:I don't think you can be a moderator after you were already banned.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.