Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Moderation of Live SS chat

Magma

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2007
Messages
464
Reaction score
24
Location
North Coast
As more and more members begin to utilize our free private chat room, I think there needs to be more organization and moderation to create an effective, efficient, and engaging chat. It is my opinion that a single private room is too small to effectively engage in a given topic.

I would like to propose separate SS chat rooms that correspond with the various forums we have here at SS. I'm not saying that we need 7 different chat rooms, but I think we could benefit from having from having two or three different rooms:

-- Mature Man
-- Health and Fitness
-- General


Each room could be "moderated" by a volunteering member (this role could change every two weeks or so). The volunteering moderator would create the weekly topics and create the times for the chat. In addition, they (the mod) would keep everyone on topic. Perhaps the chat mod could start off the session with an intriguing question or article pertaining to the given topic.

I really enjoy the live chat. Let's get it organized! :D
 
Last edited:

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

mpimpin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
1,746
Reaction score
14
Location
Bama
MacAvoy said:
Except for an hour on Sunday nights, there isn't enough volume to warrant multiple rooms.
agreed and Sunday nights have a specific topic people show up or don't show up for. We all aren't trying to talk about three different topics
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,256
Reaction score
236
Age
49
Location
at our house
hi magma,
currently the room i made on chatzy is the "unofficial" chatroom.
some of our members wanted a live chatroom, and since non was provided, i went out on a search for a free chatroom myself.
redpill and i have tried to get the thing to allow other moderators, however since it is a free applet, it doesn't seem to allow that, since no one else shares my email address.
you are more than welcome to make another chatzy chatroom for everyone to use, but there is not enough traffic to really need one.
during the week, people pop in and out and talk about whatever they feel like and have chit chat, but the only time i can really get enough traffic in there is sunday nights right now.
i have been trying to get people to schedule them on other days and times, by request of our uk members, but haven't had much luck yet.

please pm me any ideas or you can come up with.
 

Magma

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2007
Messages
464
Reaction score
24
Location
North Coast
MacAvoy said:
Except for an hour on Sunday nights, there isn't enough volume to warrant multiple rooms.
What I was thinking was that Sunday nights would be the official live chat night. If there were topics offered up in MM and Health and Fitness, perhaps more people might come? I guess you could call it the "Field of Dreams" theory of chat, if you will: Open them up, and they will come.

Just a thought...



Pen, I certainly appreciate the time and effort that you the Pill have put forth concerning the live chat. I think the initial response is pretty good! I can't remember who suggested it, but perhaps the intereseted parties could pony up a quarter or so and transfer it to a Paypal account to pay for the Chatzy premium service ($9 I believe?). I would certainly be willing to part with two bits.

Thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top