“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So I casually chatted up this blonde chick tonight, thought she was cute and got her digits before her snotty friend pulled her away. She saved herself as her full name so I looked her up on Facebook and apparently she is a model. Really superb stomach and overall body game.

Since I typically use a strong makeout to close and leave an impression, what are my best odds at seeing this girl again with just a number?

Suggest texts/approach because I'd really enjoy taking it to the next level with this girl.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In10se said:
So I casually chatted up this blonde chick tonight, thought she was cute and got her digits before her snotty friend pulled her away. She saved herself as her full name so I looked her up on Facebook and apparently she is a model. Really superb stomach and overall body game.

Since I typically use a strong makeout to close and leave an impression, what are my best odds at seeing this girl again with just a number?

Suggest texts/approach because I'd really enjoy taking it to the next level with this girl.
Firstly: maintain a general attitude of "she's just a girl"- don't treat her any differently than you would others just because she is a model.

If I get a number from a club or night game, I typically do one of two things. Most likely, I will ask the girl out for a drink via text in the next 48 hours or so, depending on my schedule. If she's at all interested, she will accept.

If I feel that the girl and myself didn't build up enough of an emotional connection for her to want drinks, I build comfort a bit via text/FB for a few days, then ask her out as above. If this girl was taken away from you before you had a chance to run your game on her (reading between the lines of what you said), then this second option might be your best bet. Base your conversation on what you talked about when you met, be funny, engaging, and brief, with a view to meeting up asap. You don't want to find yourself relegated to the status of one of her text orbiters, who she uses for attention but never reciprocates by putting out.

Does that answer your question?
 

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Yeah, sort of, I think my text game is lacking because I end up talking too much when I should just be brief and set up a date. I'm going to add her to Facebook so she can stalk all my awesome pictures and then I'll drop her a line and see if she wants to hook up Monday for lunch.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In10se said:
Yeah, sort of, I think my text game is lacking because I end up talking too much when I should just be brief and set up a date. I'm going to add her to Facebook so she can stalk all my awesome pictures and then I'll drop her a line and see if she wants to hook up Monday for lunch.

Why? You've met her, and you talked a good enough game to get her number. What is Facebook going to do for you that meeting her in person hasn't already done? I mean, Facebook isn't going to kill you. I'm just a big fan of keeping my privacy.

The only text game you need is "Hey. It's In10se. How did the rest of your night go? Let's meet up for a drink this week."
 
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