"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I casually chatted up this blonde chick tonight, thought she was cute and got her digits before her snotty friend pulled her away. She saved herself as her full name so I looked her up on Facebook and apparently she is a model. Really superb stomach and overall body game.

Since I typically use a strong makeout to close and leave an impression, what are my best odds at seeing this girl again with just a number?

Suggest texts/approach because I'd really enjoy taking it to the next level with this girl.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In10se said:
So I casually chatted up this blonde chick tonight, thought she was cute and got her digits before her snotty friend pulled her away. She saved herself as her full name so I looked her up on Facebook and apparently she is a model. Really superb stomach and overall body game.

Since I typically use a strong makeout to close and leave an impression, what are my best odds at seeing this girl again with just a number?

Suggest texts/approach because I'd really enjoy taking it to the next level with this girl.
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Firstly: maintain a general attitude of "she's just a girl"- don't treat her any differently than you would others just because she is a model.

If I get a number from a club or night game, I typically do one of two things. Most likely, I will ask the girl out for a drink via text in the next 48 hours or so, depending on my schedule. If she's at all interested, she will accept.

If I feel that the girl and myself didn't build up enough of an emotional connection for her to want drinks, I build comfort a bit via text/FB for a few days, then ask her out as above. If this girl was taken away from you before you had a chance to run your game on her (reading between the lines of what you said), then this second option might be your best bet. Base your conversation on what you talked about when you met, be funny, engaging, and brief, with a view to meeting up asap. You don't want to find yourself relegated to the status of one of her text orbiters, who she uses for attention but never reciprocates by putting out.

Does that answer your question?
 
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Yeah, sort of, I think my text game is lacking because I end up talking too much when I should just be brief and set up a date. I'm going to add her to Facebook so she can stalk all my awesome pictures and then I'll drop her a line and see if she wants to hook up Monday for lunch.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In10se said:
Yeah, sort of, I think my text game is lacking because I end up talking too much when I should just be brief and set up a date. I'm going to add her to Facebook so she can stalk all my awesome pictures and then I'll drop her a line and see if she wants to hook up Monday for lunch.
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Why? You've met her, and you talked a good enough game to get her number. What is Facebook going to do for you that meeting her in person hasn't already done? I mean, Facebook isn't going to kill you. I'm just a big fan of keeping my privacy.

The only text game you need is "Hey. It's In10se. How did the rest of your night go? Let's meet up for a drink this week."
 
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