"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Model Mayhem

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So I casually chatted up this blonde chick tonight, thought she was cute and got her digits before her snotty friend pulled her away. She saved herself as her full name so I looked her up on Facebook and apparently she is a model. Really superb stomach and overall body game.

Since I typically use a strong makeout to close and leave an impression, what are my best odds at seeing this girl again with just a number?

Suggest texts/approach because I'd really enjoy taking it to the next level with this girl.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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In10se said:
So I casually chatted up this blonde chick tonight, thought she was cute and got her digits before her snotty friend pulled her away. She saved herself as her full name so I looked her up on Facebook and apparently she is a model. Really superb stomach and overall body game.

Since I typically use a strong makeout to close and leave an impression, what are my best odds at seeing this girl again with just a number?

Suggest texts/approach because I'd really enjoy taking it to the next level with this girl.
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Firstly: maintain a general attitude of "she's just a girl"- don't treat her any differently than you would others just because she is a model.

If I get a number from a club or night game, I typically do one of two things. Most likely, I will ask the girl out for a drink via text in the next 48 hours or so, depending on my schedule. If she's at all interested, she will accept.

If I feel that the girl and myself didn't build up enough of an emotional connection for her to want drinks, I build comfort a bit via text/FB for a few days, then ask her out as above. If this girl was taken away from you before you had a chance to run your game on her (reading between the lines of what you said), then this second option might be your best bet. Base your conversation on what you talked about when you met, be funny, engaging, and brief, with a view to meeting up asap. You don't want to find yourself relegated to the status of one of her text orbiters, who she uses for attention but never reciprocates by putting out.

Does that answer your question?
 
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Yeah, sort of, I think my text game is lacking because I end up talking too much when I should just be brief and set up a date. I'm going to add her to Facebook so she can stalk all my awesome pictures and then I'll drop her a line and see if she wants to hook up Monday for lunch.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In10se said:
Yeah, sort of, I think my text game is lacking because I end up talking too much when I should just be brief and set up a date. I'm going to add her to Facebook so she can stalk all my awesome pictures and then I'll drop her a line and see if she wants to hook up Monday for lunch.
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Why? You've met her, and you talked a good enough game to get her number. What is Facebook going to do for you that meeting her in person hasn't already done? I mean, Facebook isn't going to kill you. I'm just a big fan of keeping my privacy.

The only text game you need is "Hey. It's In10se. How did the rest of your night go? Let's meet up for a drink this week."
 
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