"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nexxus

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how many calories a day should you eat if you wanna be skinyy like a model???
I got a healthy diet, but i'm around 15% bf and i wanna get down to around 8 in a year or so...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nexxus

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hmm doesn't really sound too bad
i can understand ppl who don't wanna be skinny, but for me i've always felt more comfortable the skinnier i was and recently when i've been losing weight quite succesfully girls've been telling me i got a model face so obviously i think i could go on to be a model if only i lost some fat
not like i care about that i just put my goal to be skinny like a model for my own reasons
 

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to each his own.

I'm 5'8 and at one point about a year ago I spent so much time focusing on my exercising I got up to about 190ish with about a 10-11% BF... but as my goals have changed.. i wouldn't mind trying a triathlon next year, and I like looking good in a suit (not that you don't if you are big) I go for what I call the "functional athletic" look.

I am now 5'8 (closer to 5'9), 170, about 9% BF, I work out 3 days a week, I do cardio 5-6 days a week, depends on how I feel, I normally watch what I eat but I'm not going to kill myself If I have a date and we go out for pizza or Italian.. I can take my shirt off and look GREAT and I'm not skinny. that's all I care about, besides my general health.

To me, my body is one faucet of my life. I understand some that do it for the sport, that's GREAT.. but I'm not going to kill myself getting to 140 (nor do I want to be that small) nor am I going to spend half my day revolving around my diet and my exercising. an hour, maybe an hour and 15 every morning and I'm done.
 

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Nexxus said:
how many calories a day should you eat if you wanna be skinyy like a model???
I got a healthy diet, but i'm around 15% bf and i wanna get down to around 8 in a year or so...
Why would anyone want to look like a junkie???????????????
 
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