"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mmmmm..." give me a call tomorrow"

pvf94

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Do you follow through with it?

I was talking on aim with girl....had a hilirious convo. end of it went like this

pvf94: ah ok, thanks for the late night laughs
pvf94: im goin to bed
pvf94: school
girl: lol ok give me a call tomorrow
girl: bye
pvf94: aight latero

Known each other a while....I am sorta in the friendzy area...though she ask's me to hangout atleast once a week. She hasnt yet, should I? Movies maybe?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pvf94

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didnt feel like waiting, called her...first thing she says is "whatsup you sexy mexican"

Than proceeded to ask me to hangout tonight....just friends? :rolleyes:
 

whistler

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... while the iron is hot...

good luck
 

Jack McCrack

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Wow.

Looks like she jumped the gun hardcore there.

Thumbs up my friend.
 

sanyo7878

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Dude... you should go for this... sounds like she obviously wants you...

I"m going to steal a quote from someone on this site (sorry, i don't remember who it came from).... "those who hesitate masturbate"

you better strike while the iron is hot brotha.

good luck.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Demon

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Let's reverse this situation.
girl: ah ok, thanks for the late night laughs
girl: im goin to bed
girl: school
pvf94: lol ok give me a call tomorrow
pvf94: bye
girl: aight latero
In the reversed situation, what are you trying to do?
 
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