Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Mmmmm..." give me a call tomorrow"

pvf94

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Do you follow through with it?

I was talking on aim with girl....had a hilirious convo. end of it went like this

pvf94: ah ok, thanks for the late night laughs
pvf94: im goin to bed
pvf94: school
girl: lol ok give me a call tomorrow
girl: bye
pvf94: aight latero

Known each other a while....I am sorta in the friendzy area...though she ask's me to hangout atleast once a week. She hasnt yet, should I? Movies maybe?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pvf94

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didnt feel like waiting, called her...first thing she says is "whatsup you sexy mexican"

Than proceeded to ask me to hangout tonight....just friends? :rolleyes:
 

whistler

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... while the iron is hot...

good luck
 

Jack McCrack

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Wow.

Looks like she jumped the gun hardcore there.

Thumbs up my friend.
 

sanyo7878

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Dude... you should go for this... sounds like she obviously wants you...

I"m going to steal a quote from someone on this site (sorry, i don't remember who it came from).... "those who hesitate masturbate"

you better strike while the iron is hot brotha.

good luck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Let's reverse this situation.
girl: ah ok, thanks for the late night laughs
girl: im goin to bed
girl: school
pvf94: lol ok give me a call tomorrow
pvf94: bye
girl: aight latero
In the reversed situation, what are you trying to do?
 
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