"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MM Forum---PLEASE give this guy advice before he ruins his life

Jeffst1980

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1455206&posted=1#post1455206

The OP had been living with a friend, and eventually started hooking up with her. He had made a series of threads of all the cruel and disrespectful behavior she's exhibited towards him, yet somehow agreed to be her boyfriend and buy a house with her. He is doing this after 6 months of being mistreated and getting very little sex in the meantime. Since she makes an income below the poverty line, she is having HIM pay the mortgage. They are slated to move in in 2 weeks.

Even if I don't always share the same opinions as some on the forum, I know we're all on the same page on this one. I also know that if anyone can get this guy to change his mind before it's too late, it's the posters in here. Let's mobilize the troops on this one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dear Jeff,
Whom the Gods would destroy,they first send mad.....
 

KontrollerX

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A fool and his money are soon parted.

Life will be the best teacher this idiot will ever have.
 
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