"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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whats up guys? heres my problem. I am talking to this chic and we have a good time with each other in class and school. But sometimes when I think I got her she turns it around and kind of acts like we are barely friends. but then when we go to our lab it becomes a touch-athon(touchin of the legs, massaging the back, etc). So, what the hell is going on? I have also tried to ask her to dinner once but she flaked because we had a big test the next day.

Also, I am not putting everything on this chic, because I have 3 others that I am currently dating, but she is the one that I really want to get with.

Oh yeah, she just broke up with her BF of 5 years about 2 months ago.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is very common. Hell, I can't think of one chick that hasn't given me mixed signals at some point, even if I did end up getting with them.

It's part of their game. The only way to find out if she really likes you is to make your move. Simple as that.

The only thing you gotta be careful about is the flaking. Usually that's an indication she doesn't like you. I'll give a chick the benefit of the doubt the first time she flakes, but after that she's nexted as far as I'm concerned.
 
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Dinner so soon?

Use the circumstance...if she's tense and you're giving her a massage, invite her to coffee or a drink after class. Or set up a study date.

The traditional "dinner date" is overrated and often awkward as a first-time thing. I'd walk her back to her place sometime and see if you can close the deal then and there. (don't do it if she's not feeling it, but see how she responds to you)
 
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I have already done the study date twice. And We have a great time together. but there is a friend of ours that is a girl and it seems like whenever she is around she acts different. And when do I make my move when she is giving weird ass signals. Is it or not? Everytime I made the move with a girl i almost knew 100% that she was in to me. thanks for the comments
 
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Originally posted by trd323


Also, I am not putting everything on this chic, because I have 3 others that I am currently dating, but she is the one that I really want to get with.

Oh yeah, she just broke up with her BF of 5 years about 2 months ago.
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Well if you have 3 others, then why the **** are you making this an issue?

And the breakup could have something to do with the "mixed signals." Go work on those so-called 3 girls. I'm working on 10-15 girls.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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there are 2-3 other girls, but this one is different I actually really like the time I spend with her and she is fine. While the other 2 girls are just as fine but all I want to do is bang them and I can only tolerate their BS until I do bang them.
 
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