"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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whats up guys? heres my problem. I am talking to this chic and we have a good time with each other in class and school. But sometimes when I think I got her she turns it around and kind of acts like we are barely friends. but then when we go to our lab it becomes a touch-athon(touchin of the legs, massaging the back, etc). So, what the hell is going on? I have also tried to ask her to dinner once but she flaked because we had a big test the next day.

Also, I am not putting everything on this chic, because I have 3 others that I am currently dating, but she is the one that I really want to get with.

Oh yeah, she just broke up with her BF of 5 years about 2 months ago.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is very common. Hell, I can't think of one chick that hasn't given me mixed signals at some point, even if I did end up getting with them.

It's part of their game. The only way to find out if she really likes you is to make your move. Simple as that.

The only thing you gotta be careful about is the flaking. Usually that's an indication she doesn't like you. I'll give a chick the benefit of the doubt the first time she flakes, but after that she's nexted as far as I'm concerned.
 
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Dinner so soon?

Use the circumstance...if she's tense and you're giving her a massage, invite her to coffee or a drink after class. Or set up a study date.

The traditional "dinner date" is overrated and often awkward as a first-time thing. I'd walk her back to her place sometime and see if you can close the deal then and there. (don't do it if she's not feeling it, but see how she responds to you)
 
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I have already done the study date twice. And We have a great time together. but there is a friend of ours that is a girl and it seems like whenever she is around she acts different. And when do I make my move when she is giving weird ass signals. Is it or not? Everytime I made the move with a girl i almost knew 100% that she was in to me. thanks for the comments
 
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Originally posted by trd323


Also, I am not putting everything on this chic, because I have 3 others that I am currently dating, but she is the one that I really want to get with.

Oh yeah, she just broke up with her BF of 5 years about 2 months ago.
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Well if you have 3 others, then why the **** are you making this an issue?

And the breakup could have something to do with the "mixed signals." Go work on those so-called 3 girls. I'm working on 10-15 girls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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there are 2-3 other girls, but this one is different I actually really like the time I spend with her and she is fine. While the other 2 girls are just as fine but all I want to do is bang them and I can only tolerate their BS until I do bang them.
 
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