mixed signals

[trd323]

whats up guys? heres my problem. I am talking to this chic and we have a good time with each other in class and school. But sometimes when I think I got her she turns it around and kind of acts like we are barely friends. but then when we go to our lab it becomes a touch-athon(touchin of the legs, massaging the back, etc). So, what the hell is going on? I have also tried to ask her to dinner once but she flaked because we had a big test the next day.

Also, I am not putting everything on this chic, because I have 3 others that I am currently dating, but she is the one that I really want to get with.

Oh yeah, she just broke up with her BF of 5 years about 2 months ago.

 

[il_duce]

This is very common. Hell, I can't think of one chick that hasn't given me mixed signals at some point, even if I did end up getting with them.

It's part of their game. The only way to find out if she really likes you is to make your move. Simple as that.

The only thing you gotta be careful about is the flaking. Usually that's an indication she doesn't like you. I'll give a chick the benefit of the doubt the first time she flakes, but after that she's nexted as far as I'm concerned.

 

[squirrels]

Dinner so soon?

Use the circumstance...if she's tense and you're giving her a massage, invite her to coffee or a drink after class. Or set up a study date.

The traditional "dinner date" is overrated and often awkward as a first-time thing. I'd walk her back to her place sometime and see if you can close the deal then and there. (don't do it if she's not feeling it, but see how she responds to you)

 

[trd323]

I have already done the study date twice. And We have a great time together. but there is a friend of ours that is a girl and it seems like whenever she is around she acts different. And when do I make my move when she is giving weird ass signals. Is it or not? Everytime I made the move with a girl i almost knew 100% that she was in to me. thanks for the comments

 

[Skullcrusher]

Originally posted by trd323


Also, I am not putting everything on this chic, because I have 3 others that I am currently dating, but she is the one that I really want to get with.

Oh yeah, she just broke up with her BF of 5 years about 2 months ago.

Well if you have 3 others, then why the **** are you making this an issue?

And the breakup could have something to do with the "mixed signals." Go work on those so-called 3 girls. I'm working on 10-15 girls.

 

[trd323]

there are 2-3 other girls, but this one is different I actually really like the time I spend with her and she is fine. While the other 2 girls are just as fine but all I want to do is bang them and I can only tolerate their BS until I do bang them.