"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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is it wrong to send mixed signals to a girl...

there's this one girl i've been .. well... dating.. is it wrong for me to string her along knowing that i have no feelings for her...

she's perfect in every sense.. looks wise shes HOT... personality is amazing... and she seems to care about me a lot... she comes from a good family.. and has no issues and plays no games....

but i just dont have feelings for her where i know i should...


im at a point in life where i dont wanna settle.... but i dont wanna lose her either.. its weird cuz for once, i dont know exactly what i want from her... she just caught im in a time where i dont want anything serious... and if i tell her that, i'll lose her...

strange situation to be in... maybe somebody could chime in with some advice..

thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You gotta tell her what you want and how you feel. If she is really into you she will stay around.
 
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SAV, my brother, I am in the same situation as you are right now!

Their is a girl at my school that i just recently meet. She is smart, attractive and plays no games I could tell she liked me when she texted me the next day after i got her number. But the problem is I wasnt attracted to her the first time I met her. I went on 2 dates with her and we had a great time but im still not attracted to her.

I remember when we went out I did she guys checking her out but it didnt faze me. Recently she tried to play hard to get, I guess because she always called me and i rarely called her. I had no problem with that so i think for 3 weeks we didnt speak then last friday she texted me saying "hey whatchu up 2"
 
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coacj said:
SAV, my brother, I am in the same situation as you are right now!

Their is a girl at my school that i just recently meet. She is smart, not attractive and plays no games I could tell she liked me when she texted me the next day after i got her number. But the problem is I wasnt attracted to her the first time I met her. I went on 2 dates with her and we had a great time but im still not attracted to her.

I remember when we went out I did she guys checking her out but it didnt faze me. Recently she tried to play hard to get, I guess because she always called me and i rarely called her. I had no problem with that so i think for 3 weeks we didnt speak then last friday she texted me saying "hey whatchu up 2"
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not attractive? ;)

this girl is hot but something just doesnt seem to click... *sigh*
 
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LOL. My fault i didnt mean to put that she's not attractive, she is pretty
when i was walking with her guys were checking her out. Whats even more funny is that when we went to BBQ's to eat their were these 2 women across from us eating and one of them kept looking at my date, so then me and my date were talking and they over heard it and they tried to talk with her. when they left my date said she thinks they were lesbians and i thought the samething.
So women are even hitting on her, theirs something they see that i dont see
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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