mixed signals wtf?

[jamescr73]

I met this girl last weekend through a friend. We hit it off real fast, and the first night we pretty much did everything but had sex (at a friends house, on the couch). The next day, same thing. Things were going real good, and she wanted to fuk real bad, but was kind of iffy about it. The next day we got together at my place at watched a movie, and same thing, half naked, having a great time, but she left because "she was about to rape me and wasnt ready for that yet". Ok sure. So thursday she came out to a bar that i was at, and was talking with some mutual friends of ours why i did my own thing playing pool and stuff. She was text messaging me from about 40 feet away, about how wet she was, how horny she was, etc. I invited her back to my place, but she didnt end up going. We already had a date planned for last night and we went out and had a great time. Afterward i asked if she wanted to go see a movie, she said no, so i asked if she would like to rent one, she said sure. So we rented a movie and went back to my place. I tried to make a few moves on her, but she was totally unresponsive. I ended up getting a few kisses and nothing more. When the movie was over, she said she needed to go, (It was only 11 or so) because bad things were about to happen. So she left. So i call her about 30 minutes later and ask her why she is scared of me. She said that she "doesnt want to get involved with me".

So whats with all the mixed signals? One day when we were together, sitting right beside me, she texts me "fu(k me", then does nothing. Were sitting in the back of a friends car, shes giving me a hj, and ive got my hands down her pants shes ready to go right there, but later that night nothing happens.

Why are bltches so confused these days?

 

[flexion_]

Hard to know. It seems to me like you are moving things too fast. Have you had like 4 dates in the last 10 days? If so back off... Give her say 2 weeks and focus on other women - you'll probably know whats going on after that.

 

[Cancerian]

She was going to turn into a werewolf and didn't want to hurt you.

Kidding aside, I think that she is unstable, being horny and all that and then leaving you all high and dry.

 

[Rex Man]

Basic push and pull tech. She's playing the game and winning. Could possibly be a bit unstable.

Depending on where you want this to go you have a few options.
1)Next time she starts talking all risque make sure you're unaffected and say in serious, almost irratated tone, "I don't get you. I'm feeling you but it seem like you unsure. I'm really not all that good at playing games, so just be straight up with me and tell me what's good?"

At this point freeze your face. She will do a lot of talking. Don't react unless she asks you a direct question. You WILL get the information you're looking for.

 

[Last Man Standing]

One day when we were together, sitting right beside me, she texts me "fu(k me", then does nothing.

Hors like to play mind games - sounds like the hor is in control of the pimp!! Tsk, tsk,

 

[BustedKnucks]

When I get mixed signals, I only acknowledge the bad ones, that's the safe bet. If I'm wrong, time will sort things out.