"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mixed signals wtf?

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I met this girl last weekend through a friend. We hit it off real fast, and the first night we pretty much did everything but had sex (at a friends house, on the couch). The next day, same thing. Things were going real good, and she wanted to fuk real bad, but was kind of iffy about it. The next day we got together at my place at watched a movie, and same thing, half naked, having a great time, but she left because "she was about to rape me and wasnt ready for that yet". Ok sure. So thursday she came out to a bar that i was at, and was talking with some mutual friends of ours why i did my own thing playing pool and stuff. She was text messaging me from about 40 feet away, about how wet she was, how horny she was, etc. I invited her back to my place, but she didnt end up going. We already had a date planned for last night and we went out and had a great time. Afterward i asked if she wanted to go see a movie, she said no, so i asked if she would like to rent one, she said sure. So we rented a movie and went back to my place. I tried to make a few moves on her, but she was totally unresponsive. I ended up getting a few kisses and nothing more. When the movie was over, she said she needed to go, (It was only 11 or so) because bad things were about to happen. So she left. So i call her about 30 minutes later and ask her why she is scared of me. She said that she "doesnt want to get involved with me".

So whats with all the mixed signals? One day when we were together, sitting right beside me, she texts me "fu(k me", then does nothing. Were sitting in the back of a friends car, shes giving me a hj, and ive got my hands down her pants shes ready to go right there, but later that night nothing happens.

Why are bltches so confused these days?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hard to know. It seems to me like you are moving things too fast. Have you had like 4 dates in the last 10 days? If so back off... Give her say 2 weeks and focus on other women - you'll probably know whats going on after that.
 
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She was going to turn into a werewolf and didn't want to hurt you.

Kidding aside, I think that she is unstable, being horny and all that and then leaving you all high and dry.
 
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Basic push and pull tech. She's playing the game and winning. Could possibly be a bit unstable.

Depending on where you want this to go you have a few options.
1)Next time she starts talking all risque make sure you're unaffected and say in serious, almost irratated tone, "I don't get you. I'm feeling you but it seem like you unsure. I'm really not all that good at playing games, so just be straight up with me and tell me what's good?"

At this point freeze your face. She will do a lot of talking. Don't react unless she asks you a direct question. You WILL get the information you're looking for.
 
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jamescr73 said:
One day when we were together, sitting right beside me, she texts me "fu(k me", then does nothing.
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Hors like to play mind games - sounds like the hor is in control of the pimp!! Tsk, tsk,:rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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