"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mixed Signals...what do you think?

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I haven't even approached this girl yet. I have something in mind, but she's giving mixed signals. Here goes my mind overanalyzing things again, but I just can't help it.

She's interested:
- She glances over at me sometimes in class (she sits far away from me)
- One time I looked up at her while she was looking at me, she jumps (like when you're surprised), then she looks away
- I passed her in the halls once and she looked at me then quickly looked away when she saw I was looking at her

She's not interested:
- One day, right before class is over she walks right by me without looking at me with her arms crossed
- Whenever I'm near her, she doesn't even look at me
- She speeds off after class

What do you think? Is she interested?

I'm thinking of approaching no matter what, but I just want to know if she's interested. I'll probably say something about the class (like "Did you get any of what the teacher said?" or "How'd you do on that test?"), but who knows. I'm trying to work on telling my mind to stfu. I'm trying to be like Nike and just do it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aldo said:
I haven't even approached this girl yet. I have something in mind, but she's giving mixed signals. Here goes my mind overanalyzing things again, but I just can't help it.

She's interested:
- She glances over at me sometimes in class (she sits far away from me)
- One time I looked up at her while she was looking at me, she jumps (like when you're surprised), then she looks away
- I passed her in the halls once and she looked at me then quickly looked away when she saw I was looking at her

She's not interested:
- One day, right before class is over she walks right by me without looking at me with her arms crossed
- Whenever I'm near her, she doesn't even look at me
- She speeds off after class

What do you think? Is she interested?

I'm thinking of approaching no matter what, but I just want to know if she's interested. I'll probably say something about the class (like "Did you get any of what the teacher said?" or "How'd you do on that test?"), but who knows. I'm trying to work on telling my mind to stfu. I'm trying to be like Nike and just do it.
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I hate to say it dude, but overall she sounds creeped out. Initially she may have been interested, but most of what you've written shows that she's purposely avoiding you. While women usually don't blatantly approach men, they usually show signs of interest, i.e. getting in your proximity, brushing by you, mirroring your stance and, of course, alluring eye contact. (keyword, "alluring").

This girl seems to be very creeped out so my best advice is to avoid her and get at other females. #1 it will help increase your confidence and focus on other females and #2 she MAY notice and show signs of interest again. (Women are funny like that).

Good luck
 
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Aldo said:
I haven't even approached this girl yet.
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Aldo said:
What do you think? Is she interested?
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I think not. :whistle:

No one here is psychic, you're gonna have to AT LEAST talk to the girl before we can tell you anything.
 
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For christ sake bro, i swear you new guys are getting worse lol

You can't tell if she likes you by how she looks at you...

You know what of course she doesn't "LIKE" you but she might be "INTERESTED" so talk to her, if she act's interested in you (like that she seems to act like your interesting) while she's talking to you after you have started talking to her... Use tips in the bible which you better read or i'ma find you and slap you.

Fact is you can't tell by a few looks, if she looks at you though go talk to her, no harm can be done by this.
 
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You'll never know till you approach her. Grow a pair and start up a conversation, stop thinking about if she likes you or not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eaglez1177 said:
You'll never know till you approach her. Grow a pair and start up a conversation, stop thinking about if she likes you or not.
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I got that covered. It's just that she's never in class. She missed like 17 out of the 21 school days so far lol
 
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Lol well shes gonna have to come eventually...trust me eventually she wont be able to miss that much schoool....and dont make excuses.
 
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Well I've got bad news. The girl switched out of the class, and as big as my school is, I'll probably never see her long enough to start up a conversation.

And now that makes me more aware of my chances I had with her before. Like when there was an open seat next to her all class a couple of weeks back.

F*** me. I guess I have to learn from this. I hate regret though. I hate it 10 times more than rejection...
 
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