Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Then you still haven't put your own mind in order.
At least you're catching on to the external signals.
Go get 'em.
They do it for attention and validation. She cares about her feelings not yours.UPDATE: To anyone that originally posted, figured I'd come back around and talk about the aftermath of the situation. Nothing happened at all. I just cut off all contact with her cold turkey. I didn't unfriend her on FB (didn't wanna come off as immature or anything), and that's that. Silence. No text, No call, not even saying hi/acknowledging each other when we randomly bumped into each other on campus.
I did hit her up the other day for closure purposes but then I stopped. What good is it gonna do me to have her admit "yes I was just stringing you along." She wasn't worth the time, energy, or mental effort. Glad the store took back the item I purchased for her birthday as a gift (I threw out the receipt).
Out of complete curiosity, why would she do this to me? Maybe I'm just naive, but I'd never hurt a fly let alone a person by leading them on thinking I have feelings for them/are interested in a relationship beyond friendship when I'm truly not. That's just cold-hearted if you ask me. I've seen it on TV shows and stuff, but never assumed I'd be a victim of it one day
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Because she's selfish. The fact that you liked her so much made her feel good about herself, it made her feel valued. But she never cared about your feelings at all. Many women are like this.UPDATE: To anyone that originally posted, figured I'd come back around and talk about the aftermath of the situation. Nothing happened at all. I just cut off all contact with her cold turkey. I didn't unfriend her on FB (didn't wanna come off as immature or anything), and that's that. Silence. No text, No call, not even saying hi/acknowledging each other when we randomly bumped into each other on campus.
I did hit her up the other day for closure purposes but then I stopped. What good is it gonna do me to have her admit "yes I was just stringing you along." She wasn't worth the time, energy, or mental effort. Glad the store took back the item I purchased for her birthday as a gift (I threw out the receipt).
Out of complete curiosity, why would she do this to me? Maybe I'm just naive, but I'd never hurt a fly let alone a person by leading them on thinking I have feelings for them/are interested in a relationship beyond friendship when I'm truly not. That's just cold-hearted if you ask me. I've seen it on TV shows and stuff, but never assumed I'd be a victim of it one day