Ok so out of a messy break up, with a girl (girl A) for two years she was pushing for marriage and I was saying wait. It just didn't work out, we don't talk anymore.
So I went out, to spin more plates, and basically went clubbing with this girl (say, girl b) my ex hated me spending time with (she thought girl b had a thing for me). A few of that girl's friends were around and one of them really caught my eye (girl c). Actually she was the one to initiate conversation with me. We danced a little together spoke a bit, and really that was it, I actually didn't think too much of it at the time I was enjoying my drink, the music.
Girl B, knowing about the messy break-up with my ex asked me the next day did you like anyone last night, I mentioned girl c. Next thing girl c starts saying I'll set it up for you and gives me her blackberry messenger contact (I hadn't asked girl c for her number or anything the night before), I waited a day and added her the following day, got to talking with her. Conversation flowed well.
One massive failure I made was that I went into detail about my ex, she asked me things like 'do you regret not proposing' but I tried to cut it as short as possible.
So around a week later I call her for dinner, we go for drinks after and she comes back to my place also. So as far as I see it its going fvcking well.
I continue to talk to her on the phone but don't meet her until the following week as traveling and work.
Meanwhile I ask girl b, what does girl c think of me, she says oh she likes you but she doesn't think it can go anywhere.
I was quite shocked given that the first date went so well.
So last night was the second time I met girl c, and we went for dinner then drinks spent around 4-5 hours together, went well, made out.
She didn't come back to my place, she was fussing at first to meet me because she had an exam in the day and said she was tired, and she said 'oh you're always traveling so I wanted to see you but I'm so tired' so it does seem realistic, not just trying to brush me off.
I'm traveling again on Monday and she said she really wants to see me again before I go.
But... this morning I speak to her friend girl b, and I asked her about how girl c feels, she says oh she only sees you as a friend it can't go anywhere.
WTFFF??
I've asked another girl friend of mine (my very first girlfriend, now ex we still talk a lot), and she says girl b fancies you. I actually wouldn't find this so ridiculous because even my ex (girl A) hated me meeting girl b.
But seriously, the dates go well, girl C seems really happy to talk to me, but I'm getting these mixed signals from her friend and its really messing up my game and confidence!!
Help guys!!
So I went out, to spin more plates, and basically went clubbing with this girl (say, girl b) my ex hated me spending time with (she thought girl b had a thing for me). A few of that girl's friends were around and one of them really caught my eye (girl c). Actually she was the one to initiate conversation with me. We danced a little together spoke a bit, and really that was it, I actually didn't think too much of it at the time I was enjoying my drink, the music.
Girl B, knowing about the messy break-up with my ex asked me the next day did you like anyone last night, I mentioned girl c. Next thing girl c starts saying I'll set it up for you and gives me her blackberry messenger contact (I hadn't asked girl c for her number or anything the night before), I waited a day and added her the following day, got to talking with her. Conversation flowed well.
One massive failure I made was that I went into detail about my ex, she asked me things like 'do you regret not proposing' but I tried to cut it as short as possible.
So around a week later I call her for dinner, we go for drinks after and she comes back to my place also. So as far as I see it its going fvcking well.
I continue to talk to her on the phone but don't meet her until the following week as traveling and work.
Meanwhile I ask girl b, what does girl c think of me, she says oh she likes you but she doesn't think it can go anywhere.
I was quite shocked given that the first date went so well.
So last night was the second time I met girl c, and we went for dinner then drinks spent around 4-5 hours together, went well, made out.
She didn't come back to my place, she was fussing at first to meet me because she had an exam in the day and said she was tired, and she said 'oh you're always traveling so I wanted to see you but I'm so tired' so it does seem realistic, not just trying to brush me off.
I'm traveling again on Monday and she said she really wants to see me again before I go.
But... this morning I speak to her friend girl b, and I asked her about how girl c feels, she says oh she only sees you as a friend it can't go anywhere.
WTFFF??
I've asked another girl friend of mine (my very first girlfriend, now ex we still talk a lot), and she says girl b fancies you. I actually wouldn't find this so ridiculous because even my ex (girl A) hated me meeting girl b.
But seriously, the dates go well, girl C seems really happy to talk to me, but I'm getting these mixed signals from her friend and its really messing up my game and confidence!!
Help guys!!
