"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mixed signals, oneitis...

realsmoothie

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da_hunter said:
On my way out, I go in for a kiss and get the heissman trophy.
Heh, I like that one. Will have to use it.

Geez, man, she sucks. You did what you could, she just wasn't into it (God knows why) but she was too much of a wimpette to come out and say it.

She might be thirty... but she's basically acting eleven. You're a LOT better off without her. Now get the hell out there...!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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da_hunter

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She did give me some tips though regarding how I act on dates. I realize that I have problems being 'lively and animated' (C+F basically). This is partly because I have a psychological problem called 'Asperger's syndrome'. One of the symptoms of Aspergers is it makes you act stiff and talk like a robot, it's one of the things I work on in my therapy.

But honestly, I thought I was doing ok in this situation, but apparently not. She told me - 'you are so quiet all the time'.
 
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