"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mixed signals from a girl at my school

coacj

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I need your take on this
This past semester at school i was taking a scology class and their was this girl that kept looking at me, she would turn her head a couple of times in the class to look at me. I remember their was a joke the whole class heard and everyonewas laughing and that girl looked at me and smiled. i could tell she was feelin me. Near the end of the semester i added her as a friend on facebook and she accepted.

The next day at the end of class I went up to her and I introduced myself, and when i did that she looked at her friend, then all of a sudden these girls came to her and she walked out the room with them, and i was like WTF. So that night i sent her a message, she didnt answer. The next week i sent a message, same thing. I noticed her friend added me as a friend on facebook. So 2 weeks later i sent one more and she didnt reply, so i deleted her and her friend off my buddy list because this B**** has another thing comin to her if she thinks im going to chase her

i think back on it, maybe i should not have sent no more than 1 message, but i tend to give women a chance but what is your take on this
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Monkey

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coacj said:
i think back on it, maybe i should not have sent no more than 1 message, but i tend to give women a chance but what is your take on this
Zero interest.

Women don't need to be given a 'chance', if they like you they make it easy for you.
 

619joe

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You shouldnt have sent more than 1 message if she doesnt respond.At the very MOST 2 but then again it makes you seem needy.

Forget about her for now
 

Triple T

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619joe said:
You shouldnt have sent more than 1 message if she doesnt respond.At the very MOST 2 but then again it makes you seem needy.

Forget about her for now
yea 1 is the absolute max for me. Anymore and i would come off as too needy.

But Good on you for deleting her and her friend, just forget about her go on with your life and get some different chicks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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