"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mixed signals from a girl at my school

coacj

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I need your take on this
This past semester at school i was taking a scology class and their was this girl that kept looking at me, she would turn her head a couple of times in the class to look at me. I remember their was a joke the whole class heard and everyonewas laughing and that girl looked at me and smiled. i could tell she was feelin me. Near the end of the semester i added her as a friend on facebook and she accepted.

The next day at the end of class I went up to her and I introduced myself, and when i did that she looked at her friend, then all of a sudden these girls came to her and she walked out the room with them, and i was like WTF. So that night i sent her a message, she didnt answer. The next week i sent a message, same thing. I noticed her friend added me as a friend on facebook. So 2 weeks later i sent one more and she didnt reply, so i deleted her and her friend off my buddy list because this B**** has another thing comin to her if she thinks im going to chase her

i think back on it, maybe i should not have sent no more than 1 message, but i tend to give women a chance but what is your take on this
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Monkey

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coacj said:
i think back on it, maybe i should not have sent no more than 1 message, but i tend to give women a chance but what is your take on this
Zero interest.

Women don't need to be given a 'chance', if they like you they make it easy for you.
 

619joe

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You shouldnt have sent more than 1 message if she doesnt respond.At the very MOST 2 but then again it makes you seem needy.

Forget about her for now
 

Triple T

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619joe said:
You shouldnt have sent more than 1 message if she doesnt respond.At the very MOST 2 but then again it makes you seem needy.

Forget about her for now
yea 1 is the absolute max for me. Anymore and i would come off as too needy.

But Good on you for deleting her and her friend, just forget about her go on with your life and get some different chicks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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