"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mixed signals from a girl at my school

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I need your take on this
This past semester at school i was taking a scology class and their was this girl that kept looking at me, she would turn her head a couple of times in the class to look at me. I remember their was a joke the whole class heard and everyonewas laughing and that girl looked at me and smiled. i could tell she was feelin me. Near the end of the semester i added her as a friend on facebook and she accepted.

The next day at the end of class I went up to her and I introduced myself, and when i did that she looked at her friend, then all of a sudden these girls came to her and she walked out the room with them, and i was like WTF. So that night i sent her a message, she didnt answer. The next week i sent a message, same thing. I noticed her friend added me as a friend on facebook. So 2 weeks later i sent one more and she didnt reply, so i deleted her and her friend off my buddy list because this B**** has another thing comin to her if she thinks im going to chase her

i think back on it, maybe i should not have sent no more than 1 message, but i tend to give women a chance but what is your take on this
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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coacj said:
i think back on it, maybe i should not have sent no more than 1 message, but i tend to give women a chance but what is your take on this
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Zero interest.

Women don't need to be given a 'chance', if they like you they make it easy for you.
 
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You shouldnt have sent more than 1 message if she doesnt respond.At the very MOST 2 but then again it makes you seem needy.

Forget about her for now
 
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619joe said:
You shouldnt have sent more than 1 message if she doesnt respond.At the very MOST 2 but then again it makes you seem needy.

Forget about her for now
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yea 1 is the absolute max for me. Anymore and i would come off as too needy.

But Good on you for deleting her and her friend, just forget about her go on with your life and get some different chicks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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