"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Met an HB8 on Friday night and got her e-mail address through a friend HB5 who gave it to me with HB8's consent. However she stressed she has a boyfriend but was single on Friday and got back with her boyfriend over the weekend and everything is smoothed over now.

How should I approach the e-mail?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hahaha....single on Friday but got back with her boyfriend over the weekend....

how old is this chick?
 
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Early thirties
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Early 30's and acting like she's 20?

I don't know how you should approach the email, but you better not be looking for a relationship with her.
 
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latebacon said:
Met an HB8 on Friday night and got her e-mail address through a friend HB5 who gave it to me with HB8's consent. However she stressed she has a boyfriend but was single on Friday and got back with her boyfriend over the weekend and everything is smoothed over now.

How should I approach the e-mail?
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1) Don't talk to women via E-mail. You're trying to get them to spend time with you, not trying to sell them pen!s meds.

2) Don't get contact info through other people. It reeks of insecurity. You want to talk to her, YOU ask her.

3) Play it like you would any other woman. If there's any "boyfriend" contention, drop it and find a single girl.

4) There's no such thing as an "HB5". 6 is the limit of what's considered "f*ckable". 5 is on the shallow end of the gene pool.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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latebacon said:
Met an HB8 on Friday night and got her e-mail address through a friend HB5 who gave it to me with HB8's consent. However she stressed she has a boyfriend but was single on Friday and got back with her boyfriend over the weekend and everything is smoothed over now.

How should I approach the e-mail?
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you were getting blown off.

they only gave you the email so they could watch you get your hopes up. kind of like dangling a dog treat just high enough that the dog thinks he can get it and keeps jumping up over and over. but you keep the biscuit just out of his reach so that you can keep having yoru fun and watching him try to get it.

this is what they were doing.

at least they were nice enough to basically tell you that they were just playing with you - vis a vis 'she has a boyfriend.'
 
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