"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Met an HB8 on Friday night and got her e-mail address through a friend HB5 who gave it to me with HB8's consent. However she stressed she has a boyfriend but was single on Friday and got back with her boyfriend over the weekend and everything is smoothed over now.

How should I approach the e-mail?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hahaha....single on Friday but got back with her boyfriend over the weekend....

how old is this chick?
 
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Early thirties
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Early 30's and acting like she's 20?

I don't know how you should approach the email, but you better not be looking for a relationship with her.
 
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latebacon said:
Met an HB8 on Friday night and got her e-mail address through a friend HB5 who gave it to me with HB8's consent. However she stressed she has a boyfriend but was single on Friday and got back with her boyfriend over the weekend and everything is smoothed over now.

How should I approach the e-mail?
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1) Don't talk to women via E-mail. You're trying to get them to spend time with you, not trying to sell them pen!s meds.

2) Don't get contact info through other people. It reeks of insecurity. You want to talk to her, YOU ask her.

3) Play it like you would any other woman. If there's any "boyfriend" contention, drop it and find a single girl.

4) There's no such thing as an "HB5". 6 is the limit of what's considered "f*ckable". 5 is on the shallow end of the gene pool.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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latebacon said:
Met an HB8 on Friday night and got her e-mail address through a friend HB5 who gave it to me with HB8's consent. However she stressed she has a boyfriend but was single on Friday and got back with her boyfriend over the weekend and everything is smoothed over now.

How should I approach the e-mail?
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you were getting blown off.

they only gave you the email so they could watch you get your hopes up. kind of like dangling a dog treat just high enough that the dog thinks he can get it and keeps jumping up over and over. but you keep the biscuit just out of his reach so that you can keep having yoru fun and watching him try to get it.

this is what they were doing.

at least they were nice enough to basically tell you that they were just playing with you - vis a vis 'she has a boyfriend.'
 
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