"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mixed messages WTF is going on???

smooth_as_silk

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She is keeping you around because she has basically nothing else going on.
You have two possibilities: keep hitting it for a while (until she finds the next 'pimp in line' [PRL]) or leave this story behind and start something fresh with someone else.
Anyways, put in your mind that any kind of relationship involving this girl based on something else than banging is OVER...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WaterTiger

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According to MY dictionary...

Break Up: (verb)/ To end a relationship or partnership. To no longer have contact or sex with another person.

If you break up...then BREAK UP! Why are you still letting her make booty calls. Dump the girl and go find some one else.
 

DoubleD

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Hey, I think you have to decide if you want to have her as a GF again or not 1st.

if you don't - Hit it whenever you feel like it, do whatever you feel like.. BUT START BOOTCAMP or something to get you meeting new women.

if you do - hit it MAX 2 times a week.. and don't call her for anything BUT sex. BUT START BOOTCAMP or something to get you meeting new women. (AKA. make her want you more and persue you..) And remember you should never be the one that suggests to get back together. Let her do it.

Also realise she may want to do other ****.. and thats just the way life is... meet another woman who is better in bed.. and another who is smarter.. and another who is sexier and teases you openly in public.. and all of a sudden u won't think of the X anymore and you'll thank her for breaking up!
:D
 

white sox bill

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I basically agree w/other posters. Shes using you for sex right now. Been thru that before. Sometimes couples can't seem to rid eachother of eachother for a while. Go ahead and keep banging her but don't get re-attached. Start looking for another. Peace!
 

white sox bill

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I made a bo-bo. Seems like whenever you LOOK for someone, you never FIND them. So rather that looking, start enjoying your freedom. Good things will happen. Always keep an eye out, but don't go desperatly looking, Good luck!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Teaser

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You should thank your lucky stars that you're still getting some even if it is not on a regular basis with her. Just be with her whenever you can and do it with other women at the same time. It doesn't seem that she is committed to you so you're free to play as well.
 
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