"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mixed messages WTF is going on???

smooth_as_silk

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She is keeping you around because she has basically nothing else going on.
You have two possibilities: keep hitting it for a while (until she finds the next 'pimp in line' [PRL]) or leave this story behind and start something fresh with someone else.
Anyways, put in your mind that any kind of relationship involving this girl based on something else than banging is OVER...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WaterTiger

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According to MY dictionary...

Break Up: (verb)/ To end a relationship or partnership. To no longer have contact or sex with another person.

If you break up...then BREAK UP! Why are you still letting her make booty calls. Dump the girl and go find some one else.
 

DoubleD

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Hey, I think you have to decide if you want to have her as a GF again or not 1st.

if you don't - Hit it whenever you feel like it, do whatever you feel like.. BUT START BOOTCAMP or something to get you meeting new women.

if you do - hit it MAX 2 times a week.. and don't call her for anything BUT sex. BUT START BOOTCAMP or something to get you meeting new women. (AKA. make her want you more and persue you..) And remember you should never be the one that suggests to get back together. Let her do it.

Also realise she may want to do other ****.. and thats just the way life is... meet another woman who is better in bed.. and another who is smarter.. and another who is sexier and teases you openly in public.. and all of a sudden u won't think of the X anymore and you'll thank her for breaking up!
:D
 

white sox bill

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I basically agree w/other posters. Shes using you for sex right now. Been thru that before. Sometimes couples can't seem to rid eachother of eachother for a while. Go ahead and keep banging her but don't get re-attached. Start looking for another. Peace!
 

white sox bill

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I made a bo-bo. Seems like whenever you LOOK for someone, you never FIND them. So rather that looking, start enjoying your freedom. Good things will happen. Always keep an eye out, but don't go desperatly looking, Good luck!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Teaser

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You should thank your lucky stars that you're still getting some even if it is not on a regular basis with her. Just be with her whenever you can and do it with other women at the same time. It doesn't seem that she is committed to you so you're free to play as well.
 
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