"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mixed messages WTF is going on???

smooth_as_silk

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She is keeping you around because she has basically nothing else going on.
You have two possibilities: keep hitting it for a while (until she finds the next 'pimp in line' [PRL]) or leave this story behind and start something fresh with someone else.
Anyways, put in your mind that any kind of relationship involving this girl based on something else than banging is OVER...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WaterTiger

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According to MY dictionary...

Break Up: (verb)/ To end a relationship or partnership. To no longer have contact or sex with another person.

If you break up...then BREAK UP! Why are you still letting her make booty calls. Dump the girl and go find some one else.
 

DoubleD

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Hey, I think you have to decide if you want to have her as a GF again or not 1st.

if you don't - Hit it whenever you feel like it, do whatever you feel like.. BUT START BOOTCAMP or something to get you meeting new women.

if you do - hit it MAX 2 times a week.. and don't call her for anything BUT sex. BUT START BOOTCAMP or something to get you meeting new women. (AKA. make her want you more and persue you..) And remember you should never be the one that suggests to get back together. Let her do it.

Also realise she may want to do other ****.. and thats just the way life is... meet another woman who is better in bed.. and another who is smarter.. and another who is sexier and teases you openly in public.. and all of a sudden u won't think of the X anymore and you'll thank her for breaking up!
:D
 

white sox bill

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I basically agree w/other posters. Shes using you for sex right now. Been thru that before. Sometimes couples can't seem to rid eachother of eachother for a while. Go ahead and keep banging her but don't get re-attached. Start looking for another. Peace!
 

white sox bill

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I made a bo-bo. Seems like whenever you LOOK for someone, you never FIND them. So rather that looking, start enjoying your freedom. Good things will happen. Always keep an eye out, but don't go desperatly looking, Good luck!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Teaser

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You should thank your lucky stars that you're still getting some even if it is not on a regular basis with her. Just be with her whenever you can and do it with other women at the same time. It doesn't seem that she is committed to you so you're free to play as well.
 
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