"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Misuse of the term AFC

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The term AFC means Average Frustrated Chump. This person is frustrated about his sex life. I see people on this forum using "AFC" to describe "Niceguy". Not all Niceguys are AFC, likewise, not all AFC are niceguys, there are jerks out there who are frustrated they gets no pu$sy as well. Just thought I send some clarity because I hate reading posts where people calling a person AFC because he isn't using proper seduction techniques or if he doesn't get tons of women when infact that person is happy with his sex life.

So let's stop misusing the term AFC. If you think you are a DJ because you have DJ qualities, but in fact you are frustrated with your sex life, then you are not a DJ but an AFC. Get it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's where you're wrong pal. AFC, Average Frustrated Chump, is the clueless, spineless, kiss-a$$, "nice" guy type, who cannot figure how to create attraction, so he tries everything and anything, to no success, so he starts acting frustrated at his efforts and doing everything that just keeps putting him deeper into the friendz only zone!


That is what an AFC is; sure, he usually also tends to be sexually frustrated, but what makes him an afc is his behavior and approach, not his inability to get some. The afc is a clueless, unsuccessful, hobo, who still tries to buy woman's affections, and goes out of his way (as a way of manipulation) to be nice and impress women, as a tactic, yet comes up empty-handed (or full-handed, actually).

The person who coined that term, Ross Jeffries, has explained what it means several times, and sexually frustrated hasn't been one of his explanations. There are many types of frustrations that this type of guy has, and sexual is just one of him many problems.
 
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I think we need to conjure up venn diagrams and AFC lifecycle charts. This schit has been reiterated too many times now...
 
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