"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Misuse of the term AFC

Swoop

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The term AFC means Average Frustrated Chump. This person is frustrated about his sex life. I see people on this forum using "AFC" to describe "Niceguy". Not all Niceguys are AFC, likewise, not all AFC are niceguys, there are jerks out there who are frustrated they gets no pu$sy as well. Just thought I send some clarity because I hate reading posts where people calling a person AFC because he isn't using proper seduction techniques or if he doesn't get tons of women when infact that person is happy with his sex life.

So let's stop misusing the term AFC. If you think you are a DJ because you have DJ qualities, but in fact you are frustrated with your sex life, then you are not a DJ but an AFC. Get it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love

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That's where you're wrong pal. AFC, Average Frustrated Chump, is the clueless, spineless, kiss-a$$, "nice" guy type, who cannot figure how to create attraction, so he tries everything and anything, to no success, so he starts acting frustrated at his efforts and doing everything that just keeps putting him deeper into the friendz only zone!


That is what an AFC is; sure, he usually also tends to be sexually frustrated, but what makes him an afc is his behavior and approach, not his inability to get some. The afc is a clueless, unsuccessful, hobo, who still tries to buy woman's affections, and goes out of his way (as a way of manipulation) to be nice and impress women, as a tactic, yet comes up empty-handed (or full-handed, actually).

The person who coined that term, Ross Jeffries, has explained what it means several times, and sexually frustrated hasn't been one of his explanations. There are many types of frustrations that this type of guy has, and sexual is just one of him many problems.
 

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I think we need to conjure up venn diagrams and AFC lifecycle charts. This schit has been reiterated too many times now...
 
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