mistresses

[MacAvoy]

How is the best way to deal with the second women in terms of allowing them to know their status. I have recently become involved with my ex and mother of my daughter. I am committed to making that work on the long term.

In order for me to be able to maintain that relationship and not get bored, I will require extra-curricular activity. What is the best way to tell the other women her role. IE so she doesn't call at the wrong time and get me into trouble.

As it is now, she only has my cell phone number. She is young, and open minded, and naughty.

Suggestions?

 

[NewMan]

There is only one way to go here - be honest and up front about it.

It's either that, or you get a 2nd cell phone and you lie like a M F.

 

[flexion_]

Probably getting a 2nd cellphone would be the way to go.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

my friend told his weekend ho, that he had a wifey, wasnt lookin for love, or conversation, and not to call him all the time because his true love was at home.

It worked

 

[Golden Arms]

Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
my friend told his weekend ho, that he had a wifey, wasnt lookin for love, or conversation, and not to call him all the time because his true love was at home.

It worked

sounds like a good plan, although could potentially backfire if she turns into a psychotic ***** - like in Fatal Attraction...

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by MacAvoy
How is the best way to deal with the second women in terms of allowing them to know their status. I have recently become involved with my ex and mother of my daughter. I am committed to making that work on the long term.

In order for me to be able to maintain that relationship and not get bored, I will require extra-curricular activity. What is the best way to tell the other women her role. IE so she doesn't call at the wrong time and get me into trouble.

As it is now, she only has my cell phone number. She is young, and open minded, and naughty.

Suggestions?

1. if you cheat on her and she finds out you will have hell to pay. get a good attorney for that daughter or you wont get a visitation.
2. the other woman will fall for you, and she will stalk and harrass you , anything to get you because you are with the first woman, and this will start off with calling at the wrong times, in order to get you in trouble.


i say if you dont wanna be in the first relationship for fear of boredom , then dont be in it.
is it really worth all this other stuff ? the drama it creates?

 

[iveyleeger]

I say always be honest. In the end you will feel better. If you can't negotiate for a mistress with the wife in exchange for having you back then considerr if you want to go back or not.