"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How is the best way to deal with the second women in terms of allowing them to know their status. I have recently become involved with my ex and mother of my daughter. I am committed to making that work on the long term.

In order for me to be able to maintain that relationship and not get bored, I will require extra-curricular activity. What is the best way to tell the other women her role. IE so she doesn't call at the wrong time and get me into trouble.

As it is now, she only has my cell phone number. She is young, and open minded, and naughty.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is only one way to go here - be honest and up front about it.

It's either that, or you get a 2nd cell phone and you lie like a M F.
 
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Probably getting a 2nd cellphone would be the way to go.
 
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my friend told his weekend ho, that he had a wifey, wasnt lookin for love, or conversation, and not to call him all the time because his true love was at home.

It worked:cool:
 
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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
my friend told his weekend ho, that he had a wifey, wasnt lookin for love, or conversation, and not to call him all the time because his true love was at home.

It worked:cool:
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sounds like a good plan, although could potentially backfire if she turns into a psychotic ***** - like in Fatal Attraction...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
How is the best way to deal with the second women in terms of allowing them to know their status. I have recently become involved with my ex and mother of my daughter. I am committed to making that work on the long term.

In order for me to be able to maintain that relationship and not get bored, I will require extra-curricular activity. What is the best way to tell the other women her role. IE so she doesn't call at the wrong time and get me into trouble.

As it is now, she only has my cell phone number. She is young, and open minded, and naughty.

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1. if you cheat on her and she finds out you will have hell to pay. get a good attorney for that daughter or you wont get a visitation.
2. the other woman will fall for you, and she will stalk and harrass you , anything to get you because you are with the first woman, and this will start off with calling at the wrong times, in order to get you in trouble.


i say if you dont wanna be in the first relationship for fear of boredom , then dont be in it.
is it really worth all this other stuff ? the drama it creates?
 
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I say always be honest. In the end you will feel better. If you can't negotiate for a mistress with the wife in exchange for having you back then considerr if you want to go back or not.
 
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