"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mister Cool

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DJ'ism provokes jealousy.

While on the neverending path of Don Juan, we obtain mental toughness, physical fitness, and motivation to realize our life goals.

We become special; a supreme contradiction of power and humbleness. We appear arrogant to many.

I can f*cking assure you that you will run into jealous pricks on your way.

I've seen so many DJ's, both novice and experienced fall by the wayside by letting people get to them.

A part of being Don Juan is being Mister Cool.


Here are my strategies for dealing with haters!

1. Social Proof. Fake Don Juans are sheep. They follow where everyone else goes. When in the presence of a hater son of a ***** in a group setting, just do your thing. They have no choice but respect you.

2. Take One for the team! If you get teased, fake Don Juans only want to target your insecurities. **** an insecurity, and laugh right along with them. They get all puffed up like a ballon! lol. Then watch their ego slowly deflate before your eyes as you go right back to Strategy 1. Your game will eventually force them to like you or at least respect you.(or pretend to.)

3. Draw the line. Fake Don Juans will hang all over you, kinoing you like a girl. Are you their *****?...tell them to get off of you. If they cross the line just say "don't do that man". Most people will stop then. The key is staying cool. You emit much more personal power if you Draw the Line and don't get angry.


If you can master those three strategies, you will become Mister Cool! And more improtantly, you will learn to put hater in their place and stay on the path of Don Juan!!!


PEACE
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TyTe`EyEs

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Definitely agree with #1. Good advice for aspiring djs.
 

ShizamDaMan

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Good advice.

I especially agree with #1. It's true that if you just do what you want to do then you'll get ahead.

As with the jealous people, they'll tell you all sorts of things you have to do to be "cool." Don't listen to them, they want nothing more than to see you fall on your face. Believe half of what you see, none of what you hear :)
 

Jerky Boi

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As with everyone else, I agree with number one completely. I've only run into a few haters, but they really do get jealous. It's soo funny. Number one tip to avoid these kinds of people is no matter what they try to throw at you, ALWAYS stay on your game and remember what you are :]
 
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