"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mister Cool

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DJ'ism provokes jealousy.

While on the neverending path of Don Juan, we obtain mental toughness, physical fitness, and motivation to realize our life goals.

We become special; a supreme contradiction of power and humbleness. We appear arrogant to many.

I can f*cking assure you that you will run into jealous pricks on your way.

I've seen so many DJ's, both novice and experienced fall by the wayside by letting people get to them.

A part of being Don Juan is being Mister Cool.


Here are my strategies for dealing with haters!

1. Social Proof. Fake Don Juans are sheep. They follow where everyone else goes. When in the presence of a hater son of a ***** in a group setting, just do your thing. They have no choice but respect you.

2. Take One for the team! If you get teased, fake Don Juans only want to target your insecurities. **** an insecurity, and laugh right along with them. They get all puffed up like a ballon! lol. Then watch their ego slowly deflate before your eyes as you go right back to Strategy 1. Your game will eventually force them to like you or at least respect you.(or pretend to.)

3. Draw the line. Fake Don Juans will hang all over you, kinoing you like a girl. Are you their *****?...tell them to get off of you. If they cross the line just say "don't do that man". Most people will stop then. The key is staying cool. You emit much more personal power if you Draw the Line and don't get angry.


If you can master those three strategies, you will become Mister Cool! And more improtantly, you will learn to put hater in their place and stay on the path of Don Juan!!!


PEACE
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TyTe`EyEs

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Definitely agree with #1. Good advice for aspiring djs.
 

ShizamDaMan

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Good advice.

I especially agree with #1. It's true that if you just do what you want to do then you'll get ahead.

As with the jealous people, they'll tell you all sorts of things you have to do to be "cool." Don't listen to them, they want nothing more than to see you fall on your face. Believe half of what you see, none of what you hear :)
 

Jerky Boi

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As with everyone else, I agree with number one completely. I've only run into a few haters, but they really do get jealous. It's soo funny. Number one tip to avoid these kinds of people is no matter what they try to throw at you, ALWAYS stay on your game and remember what you are :]
 
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