Hello People.
This is my first post. Today I want to talk to you about a mistake I made so you can avoid it. It's not a revelation, it's just one of those common sense things that you need to hear from time to time not to forget it.
What happened?
I met a chick online. Well, she hitted on me. She just saw my picture, liked it and contacted me. After exchanging various naughty messages and a VERY HOT messenger session where she told me so much dirty things and that she "could fall in love with me" - i.e. "I've already fallen in love with you" - I made a mistake.
I sent her the "Overly Long Email". I tried not to make it too much emotional. Just told her that I liked her too, send her too nice pictures and dedicated to her a song I wrote time ago - I told her that, and she'd already dedicated a song to me. But it was TOO LONG and EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED. I told her how I liked to share fantasies with her because that made me feel CLOSER to her, and at the end of the message I hinted her to get connected and chat with me in a given day. She didn't comply.
What went wrong?
I got her SCARED. For the newbies out there - and myself
- a woman is NOT interested in LTR bull****. The emotions are just to much for her to handle. And you shouldn't be PURSUING one either. A relationship should be smooth, a connection that gets deeper over time without the parties even realizing it.
How to fix it
Easy: do nothing. Nothing at all! Just wait till the next time you get to talk to her and have fun. Say, "Hey, how long! I missed you already! How you doing baby?" and see how it goes.
How to avoid it
Never, EVER send a long email :nono: Mine was 6 paragraphs of some 5 lines each PLUS the lyrics for the song that I WROTE MYSELF... PLUS the pictures... :trouble: Limit yourself to 2 or three SHORT paragraphs and BE FUN. Don't be distant, but don't be OVERLY EMOTIONAL.
The funny thing is that all I wrote would have worked wonders if it was in the messenger, but not in the email. Things are different there.
Well, that is my contribution for today. If you want to say something or think that I'm wrong in my observations, please leave a comment and I might edit my post. Discuss so we all can learn!
Best wishes,
Fernando
This is my first post. Today I want to talk to you about a mistake I made so you can avoid it. It's not a revelation, it's just one of those common sense things that you need to hear from time to time not to forget it.
What happened?
I met a chick online. Well, she hitted on me. She just saw my picture, liked it and contacted me. After exchanging various naughty messages and a VERY HOT messenger session where she told me so much dirty things and that she "could fall in love with me" - i.e. "I've already fallen in love with you" - I made a mistake.
I sent her the "Overly Long Email". I tried not to make it too much emotional. Just told her that I liked her too, send her too nice pictures and dedicated to her a song I wrote time ago - I told her that, and she'd already dedicated a song to me. But it was TOO LONG and EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED. I told her how I liked to share fantasies with her because that made me feel CLOSER to her, and at the end of the message I hinted her to get connected and chat with me in a given day. She didn't comply.
What went wrong?
I got her SCARED. For the newbies out there - and myself
- a woman is NOT interested in LTR bull****. The emotions are just to much for her to handle. And you shouldn't be PURSUING one either. A relationship should be smooth, a connection that gets deeper over time without the parties even realizing it.How to fix it
Easy: do nothing. Nothing at all! Just wait till the next time you get to talk to her and have fun. Say, "Hey, how long! I missed you already! How you doing baby?" and see how it goes.
How to avoid it
Never, EVER send a long email :nono: Mine was 6 paragraphs of some 5 lines each PLUS the lyrics for the song that I WROTE MYSELF... PLUS the pictures... :trouble: Limit yourself to 2 or three SHORT paragraphs and BE FUN. Don't be distant, but don't be OVERLY EMOTIONAL.
The funny thing is that all I wrote would have worked wonders if it was in the messenger, but not in the email. Things are different there.
Well, that is my contribution for today. If you want to say something or think that I'm wrong in my observations, please leave a comment and I might edit my post. Discuss so we all can learn!
Best wishes,
Fernando
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