"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mission Impossible

Lafarge

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The Girl:

Is extremely attractive.

Is single and has been for years

Has given me her number before

Tells me she is prepared to remain single even if it means forever unless she finds someone or something that suites her.

Has her hands all over me part of the night

Replies to some of my emails then drops off and then replies again.

Is a big fan of Pride and Prejudice and like most women is Infactuated with a character called 'Mr Darcy'. (I borrowed the book today to read):D

She is proud.

Is moody

Lots guys after her but none suceed.

Me

Do not wish to hit hard onto her as I don't want to be like other guys and raise the spectre of being rejected forever.

I Try to remain cool and easy.

Do not know how to wear her down without becoming to 'available' or desperate or over top.

I am better than this 'Mr Darcy'.

Currently not getting anywhere.

Do not wish to over invest incase she is a dud.

Want to project to her i am not interested in going hard for a while not until I know her better so there is no threat.

Do i try and remain patient?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Cremasta

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Ask her if she has any hot friends she can hook you up with. If she comes out with a fairly clear 'no' inside 5 seconds then just say "Well, what about you then?"

Yes it is a smart arse comment, but go with it.

You can either find out fairly soon, or as time goes on, she has a greater chance of becoming a 'dud'/friend.

If this girl is as hot as you say, then I can guarantee that most other guys walk on eggshells around her, or they are too over the top and try to stick their tongue down her throat inside 5 minutes... find the middle ground.

AND... If she starts asking you to do lots of stuff, just say no every now and then, don't be her lackey.
 

white_hype

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um ask her out? make it so you are the challenge (she will love this)

think about it... how would you feel if you can get anything you want then something comes along that looks alright...but you cant have it and the more you think about it the more you want it
 

Sir Shags Alot

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make her chase you! That is want she wants. Don't anwser her emails the day she replies. If you run into her tell her you are busy and will talk latter. Become a challange.
 

Naked_Elephant

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play your game

relax, play it cool, but don't slow yourself down. make moves on her. if it's not gonna work it's probably not because of you, assuming you can seduce her and to what you say about her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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