"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mission Impossible

Lafarge

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The Girl:

Is extremely attractive.

Is single and has been for years

Has given me her number before

Tells me she is prepared to remain single even if it means forever unless she finds someone or something that suites her.

Has her hands all over me part of the night

Replies to some of my emails then drops off and then replies again.

Is a big fan of Pride and Prejudice and like most women is Infactuated with a character called 'Mr Darcy'. (I borrowed the book today to read):D

She is proud.

Is moody

Lots guys after her but none suceed.

Me

Do not wish to hit hard onto her as I don't want to be like other guys and raise the spectre of being rejected forever.

I Try to remain cool and easy.

Do not know how to wear her down without becoming to 'available' or desperate or over top.

I am better than this 'Mr Darcy'.

Currently not getting anywhere.

Do not wish to over invest incase she is a dud.

Want to project to her i am not interested in going hard for a while not until I know her better so there is no threat.

Do i try and remain patient?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cremasta

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Ask her if she has any hot friends she can hook you up with. If she comes out with a fairly clear 'no' inside 5 seconds then just say "Well, what about you then?"

Yes it is a smart arse comment, but go with it.

You can either find out fairly soon, or as time goes on, she has a greater chance of becoming a 'dud'/friend.

If this girl is as hot as you say, then I can guarantee that most other guys walk on eggshells around her, or they are too over the top and try to stick their tongue down her throat inside 5 minutes... find the middle ground.

AND... If she starts asking you to do lots of stuff, just say no every now and then, don't be her lackey.
 

white_hype

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um ask her out? make it so you are the challenge (she will love this)

think about it... how would you feel if you can get anything you want then something comes along that looks alright...but you cant have it and the more you think about it the more you want it
 

Sir Shags Alot

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make her chase you! That is want she wants. Don't anwser her emails the day she replies. If you run into her tell her you are busy and will talk latter. Become a challange.
 

Naked_Elephant

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play your game

relax, play it cool, but don't slow yourself down. make moves on her. if it's not gonna work it's probably not because of you, assuming you can seduce her and to what you say about her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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