I've finally found a challenge that seems almost impossible to overcome.
This girl goes to grad school with me, she moved across the country about a month ago to come here and she has a boyfriend... that she lives with. She doesn't go out, she didn't participate in any of the "social" events my school organized at bars/clubs, she spends a lot of time in the library. It seems like she's mainly focusing on her studies.
As far as my interactions with her, we had a quick convo but I felt like she politely blew me off. Whenever I see her she acknowledges me, gives me a "hi" and a smile but that's it.
At this point what do you think the best strategy would be? I'm thinking to try to get into some sort of a friend zone, but still maintain flirting on a subtle level and just wait for an occasion to strike. That way, if and when her bf leaves town i could convince her to go grab a few drinks, and then from there anything goes... However, this is a very far fetched theory at this point.
What do you guys think? any better ideas?
and no, this is not "the one girl", she is not my one-itis, i just wanna hit it (hard)
This girl goes to grad school with me, she moved across the country about a month ago to come here and she has a boyfriend... that she lives with. She doesn't go out, she didn't participate in any of the "social" events my school organized at bars/clubs, she spends a lot of time in the library. It seems like she's mainly focusing on her studies.
As far as my interactions with her, we had a quick convo but I felt like she politely blew me off. Whenever I see her she acknowledges me, gives me a "hi" and a smile but that's it.
At this point what do you think the best strategy would be? I'm thinking to try to get into some sort of a friend zone, but still maintain flirting on a subtle level and just wait for an occasion to strike. That way, if and when her bf leaves town i could convince her to go grab a few drinks, and then from there anything goes... However, this is a very far fetched theory at this point.
What do you guys think? any better ideas?
and no, this is not "the one girl", she is not my one-itis, i just wanna hit it (hard)