Crazy Asian
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yeah that's what i figured too.
but, what else is there to eat?
but, what else is there to eat?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i don't know what angle.Quagmire911 said:Do the shoulder press with either dumbbells or a barbell.
What angle is the incline you are using? Make sure it isn't too steep.
Don't switch to the chest machine. If anything that would be more likely to aggravate the problem.Crazy Asian said:Friday-
No lifting cause we had a swim meet.
Ate Lots of tuna and steak.
btw, as said in my other post, i'm gonna switch from incline press to the chest machine, cause my shoulder started to hurt again when i swam yesterday.