"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mission 10%

darksprezzatura

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I've lean bulked for almost 5-6 months now.

Been training religiously since 3 years now, still gains have jumped well non-linearly

My strength has gone up:
Bench 225x5
Squats: 315x5
One arm rows: 110x5
Lat pull downs: 291x5
(I don't DL)

I gained to 210 at 6'2 ~15-18% tbf
(probably 20%)

Beginning a cut to 10%

3 month plan:

- Weigh and track every calorie
- Protein Max ~220 g/day
- No carbs apart from veggies
- 30 minute 5x5x2 to preserve strength
- HIIT 20 minutes a day
- Caffeine for higher NEAT
- Hydrate max 6L/day
- 10000 steps a day (buy fitness tracker)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Quick and dirty calculation tells me that's about 19lbs of fat. For 3 months you would have to eat a 740 calorie per day deficit. You'll lose more muscle than I would want to and you'll be more hungry than I would want to be. If you plan for 5-6 months at a 400 calorie deficit you'll save muscle, be less hungry and have more leeway for error, and look better at the end.
 

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Quick and dirty calculation tells me that's about 19lbs of fat. For 3 months you would have to eat a 740 calorie per day deficit. You'll lose more muscle than I would want to and you'll be more hungry than I would want to be. If you plan for 5-6 months at a 400 calorie deficit you'll save muscle, be less hungry and have more leeway for error, and look better at the end.
Thanks a lot for this. I've noticed for short term cuts, it's not a big deal to be aggressive.

But you're right a 400 kcal deficit is way higher ROI than 740.

Apart from this, I've picked up running 10k, as the gyms are risky with the new covid wave.
 
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