I feel like something in my game is missing, I finally got most of my game down, I'm a master at kino, eye contact and escalating once I get the conversation rolling. I can approach girls too but I feel like I dont have enough wit in my game. I always start off good but my momentum in the conversations always die down, my theory is that I need to joke w/ her more about liking me and make banter lines, but it seems like im lacking that very social skill! im not good at joking with things that deal with our interest in each other. maybe its my inner game? can you guys help me out on improving this skill? or any advice on anything else you see flawed in my game; ask if you guys need any more info on situations or stuff. Help please!
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Yeah I have the same problem. I think I might have found a solution though. I've found that if you try constantly to just make jokes the conversation is going to die very quickly, so you just have to balance it between being funny and just a normal convo.
That my problem though I'm not good at catching moments to put in sexual innuendos, i do use them though when i can... also i m can incorporate any line into my conversation and thats when I have successful fun conversations, but most of the time I think" I could of used that a minute later or a few seconds after I said a different normal conversation response which dies out, then = friends ... i guess i haven't had much experience in talking to people in general...I had my successful night hookups at parties and vacation but at school I cant keep up the banter up after a few interruptions i run out of ideas and there not enough time at lunch to isolate and do my stuff, which=my only successful hookups. how can i get better at this? Where should I put my focus for my game?
aww man theres nothing i do best then playful banter. but i suck at eye contact. go figure. but yeah its easy my advice would be to watch some comedians that you find funny and if they say something funny you can bring it up in the conversation with the girl. or make up crazyy stories that are funny.
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i do a lot of banter and teasing et all...
take my advice , do it , but only to an extent.. you dont want to end up as the dancing monkey
take my advice , do it , but only to an extent.. you dont want to end up as the dancing monkey