"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Missing a part in my game!

lifesfun

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I feel like something in my game is missing, I finally got most of my game down, I'm a master at kino, eye contact and escalating once I get the conversation rolling. I can approach girls too but I feel like I dont have enough wit in my game. I always start off good but my momentum in the conversations always die down, my theory is that I need to joke w/ her more about liking me and make banter lines, but it seems like im lacking that very social skill! im not good at joking with things that deal with our interest in each other. maybe its my inner game? can you guys help me out on improving this skill? or any advice on anything else you see flawed in my game; ask if you guys need any more info on situations or stuff. Help please!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Akyu

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Yeah I have the same problem. I think I might have found a solution though. I've found that if you try constantly to just make jokes the conversation is going to die very quickly, so you just have to balance it between being funny and just a normal convo.
 

Alkali

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Sexual innuendos are the key. Double entendres make everything last.
 

lifesfun

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That my problem though I'm not good at catching moments to put in sexual innuendos, i do use them though when i can... also i m can incorporate any line into my conversation and thats when I have successful fun conversations, but most of the time I think" I could of used that a minute later or a few seconds after I said a different normal conversation response which dies out, then = friends ... i guess i haven't had much experience in talking to people in general...I had my successful night hookups at parties and vacation but at school I cant keep up the banter up after a few interruptions i run out of ideas and there not enough time at lunch to isolate and do my stuff, which=my only successful hookups. how can i get better at this? Where should I put my focus for my game?
 

emelec

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aww man theres nothing i do best then playful banter. but i suck at eye contact. go figure. but yeah its easy my advice would be to watch some comedians that you find funny and if they say something funny you can bring it up in the conversation with the girl. or make up crazyy stories that are funny.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nicenomore

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i do a lot of banter and teasing et all...

take my advice , do it , but only to an extent.. you dont want to end up as the dancing monkey
 
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