"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anomalous

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So me and two other guys go out sarging. One of them just sits at the side reading something, so he's out, (he didn't approach one girl the whole night).

The other, well i approach this one ask her whats she thinks about so and so, whatever....... But then there's this fine girl that I tell the Chump to go approach, i even told him exaclty what to say. What does that motherfuker do?.............
NOTHING...........HE FVCKING BLEW IT (this was his thrid blow out on an attempt). So she left and this motherfvker just walks around but never really approaches. I sacrafised the few girls that were even out tonight for him. WTF do he do?.............NOTHING. There was no doubt in my mind that i could have gotten her digits.

EDIT: I yelled at his dumbass for not doing anything and making me miss my chance. You think that anger would drive him to chance..........NO IS TOO MUCH OF A CHUMP.......END OF STORY.

Lesson learned:

Don't give the guy next to you, the opportunity to appoarch because he wont do anything so he missed out and so did you.





That motherfuker, I hope i never go sarging with his dumb@$$ ever again. He wasted my whole night. What a biotch.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sinner

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haha... hard luck. maybe you could have motivated him by picking up a girl in front of him
 

Damian

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One good way to get an AFC to start approaching is to ask which girls he thinks are hot. Then help him open those women, and if he still doesn't do it, then he's got bigger problems that you can't solve for him.
 

Anomalous

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Originally posted by Noob
hey dude chill we all gotta start from some where... give it about a year and he could be the best DJ youve ever met..does he know about this website (im guessing not) well introduce him to it!
Yea, he knew about it in from 3 years ago, if not more. But his dumb@$$ is too stupid to go online on this site. Last time he visited was when the site was black and gold (remember that).





Originally posted by sinner
haha... hard luck. maybe you could have motivated him by picking up a girl in front of him
I did but he, was there laughing as the was talking to her. What a dumb@$$.


EDIT: I was going to get the other girl, I asked him, "do you want to see me do it. He didn't say anything, he just walked away.



Originally posted by Damian
One good way to get an AFC to start approaching is to ask which girls he thinks are hot. Then help him open those women, and if he still doesn't do it, then he's got bigger problems that you can't solve for him.

Promblem was that there weren't that many hot girls out. The hot girl, well i told him exactly what to say and he didn't do it. But approaching hot girls is not even nesasarry. Approaching anyone is good, old, fat, young people it doesn't matter. I told him to talk to this one girl LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN BEING!!!










MORAL OF THE STORY............
DON'T GIVE A AFC POWER OVER YOU.
 

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Next time just go out by yourself or if you do go with them don't ask them ****. first girl u see apporach and if anything u chill with her he going to feel lonely his Afc ass got to sit there watching you playing with the girls. Or open a set and have him wing for u. start with some ugs he probably to nervous cause she looks good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Damian

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FIND A BETTER WINGMAN!!!!

If this guy is as much of a loser as you say he is, than it's his own problem...Lose the loser and go find a real wingman.
 

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so why didnt U approach those girls,huh? all talk..oo i bet i ould have got her digits. yea right man u r all talk
 
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